career path

There's nothing I want to do.
I have no hobbies or special skills.
It has no value.
This is something I hope to find out now.
You should wear it now.

I think the average life expectancy for women was around 89 years.
Even if it takes 10 years to find my own career path, it's not a big deal.
You don't need to compare yourself to your classmates.
Let's find it slowly.
You don't need to panic.

You have your own path.
I'm rooting for you.

Good evening.
Nono-sama says that there are no occupations you want to get in particular, nothing you want to do, and no special skills, but there are no such people.
Also, it is said that you can't find the meaning of the value of your existence, so you don't need to ask for meaning.
The answer is quite simple; it seems that you are here and now, that is the value and significance of your existence above all else.
Certainly, now may be a time when everything isn't going well, but when I read Nono-sama's question, I feel like I'm being driven by blaming myself more and more, and I feel alone. I don't have any hobbies, no special skills, no friends, I'm stupid and clumsy, I'm not good at socializing, and I often can't do better than people; isn't that created by my excessive assumptions? If that's the case now that your career path hasn't been decided, why don't you write down the upbringing of your own life that you've lived until now, from birth to the present, in as much detail as you can remember in order to break the spell of that assumption? From there, you should always be able to see the occupations, dreams, hobbies, and things you were good at before, and you should also be able to discover why you became bad at socializing, and you should also be able to discover the parts that led to this by writing your life history. If you gradually reflect what you've seen in that way to who you are now, wouldn't you be able to move forward even half a step from your current situation? As for the fact that you don't have any friends, don't try to force them to make them, and if there is even one person you can forgive, I think that's enough.
I'm still young, and I'm praying that you can go through life without being impatient.
Ryusuke Gassho

In the same Chiba prefecture, speaking in a very loud voice,
That chief priest seems to be ridiculed, so
I don't want to say it, but for you
I dare to embarrass you.
I was a ronin for 2 years and stayed for 1 year.
Employment was also in jeopardy,
I regained my mind, got back on my feet, and somehow got a job offer.
There are many part-time workers and no hires, so I wonder if I can go home on the first day of work,
I even got fired after a few months.
Why was my salary double paid and I got fired?
I wonder if the transfer was made by mistake? But I don't want to call the company that has just been resigned.
Yes, I thought I'd return it if the other side told me to return it, so I left it as it was.
It's a part-time job, so I think it was around 20,000 yen.
It wasn't until a long time later that I found out that it was called “dismissal notice allowance.”
It's not like they're late or leave early; they're simply useless, so I'm sick.
Since it is not a disciplinary action, it is said that they paid a “1 month's worth” advance allowance.
Recently, I've been quite impudent, but at the time, I was surpassed by my younger sister who was 2 years younger,
I feel like I was living a disastrous life.
I often put my futon on and cried. A mass of complexes. I feel like it was a bad life.
Thanks to that, I was able to improve my destiny and improve myself.
Rather than ascetic practice, failure or hardship that made you feel depressed and unable to stand up
How strong has it been for me?
You have the potential to change in any way from now on.
That pain, suffering, and complex will make you stronger.
Shinto and Buddha do not inflict unbearable suffering on that person.
You will definitely be able to overcome it. He is the one who can overcome it.
I support you from the bottom of my heart. good luck!!!

After high school,
My self up until now
You can take it off all at once.

hopefully,
I want him to go to college after being a ronin for a year.

and
Over 4 years,
make new friends,
Let's think about our own career path.