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Is it a crime to commit suicide

To put it bluntly, I want to die.
I have a bad personality and I can't stand it
They honestly tell the truth (even if it's disgusting to the other person)
That personality has continued since I was a kid, and at one point
When I see the word ADHD and search for it
I learned that the problem I was worried about applies to that.
It's not that I'm smart, and it's easy to get into trouble with people.
To put it bluntly, my friends aren't to blame for my bad personality
Even when I'm at work, I'm not good at talking to people and I quit because of problems
it's not working no matter why
Put bluntly, to the point of being fatal
There is a strong saying that when people commit suicide, the opposite of the feeling that they want to die
I'm afraid I'll fall into hell when I die, so it's hard to do it.
I did a lot of research on the internet about the world after death.
About near-death experiences and various cases from previous lives
Nowadays, I'm interested that people have a soul even when they die, but the feeling of dying (suicide) that I'm worried about right now is inevitably scary and unavoidable.
However, I can't change the worries I was born with for the rest of my life
There's definitely no answer to what to do
I want to die and start my life over again by being reincarnated
I have no idea what to do

If you look at the world, there are war, poverty, and unhappy people, and people who aren't
The animal world is a life-threatening world of eating or being eaten
There were times when I saw it and thought I wasn't unhappy yet.
But I can't escape from the reality that my worries are hurting me

4 Zen Responses

Let's start with small things

The handle name “full body”
Does that mean your whole body is suffering?

While saying “I want to die”
“I'm afraid I'll go to hell when I die, so it's hard to do it.”
“The feeling of wanting to die (suicide) is so scary that I can't help it”
It seems like there are still more obsessions and conflicts with “life.”
Everyone is big or small, but everyone has that kind of feeling in a corner of their heart.
As long as you have feelings for “life,” it's fine!

“They have bad personalities, and they honestly tell the truth that they can't stand.”
If you say you're not good at dialogue and end up being a troublemaker,
If you struggle to repair your current relationships through dialogue,
It may come back and your worries will grow.

So why don't you start with something “small and kind.”
If someone is about to fall on the street, reach out softly.
I'll walk with the old man's heavy luggage.
Show your kindness only by “action.” There is no need for dialogue.
If you're young, you may often be disrespected by your partner.
But after a few repetitions,
“Thank you”
You should get the words.
That's when your “whole body” is filled with kindness.

Buddhism explains the spirit of “altruism.”
Act so as to prioritize other interests “altruism” over your own “self-interest.”
As a result, it comes back to my advantage.

Even if you think you're a troublemaker,
Before you know it,
not with words, but with actions
The person who reached out softly
It must have been there.

Now it's up to you, not with words, but with actions
Try showing gentleness gently.

You can see the light.

Suicide or suicide is not a crime.

 After the “thank you from the questioner” has arrived, I would like to tell you only one point, so I will answer it.

Previously, the Jodo Shinshu Honganji School (Onishi) Teaching and Evangelism Research Center re-read Buddhist scriptures going back to the Primitive and Mahayana Buddhism, and analyzed hundreds of places related to suicide. As a result, it was discovered that Shakyamuni did not make a value judgment about suicide. For example, there is a story about a disciple called Vaccari in the “Zaagon (Elephant) Sutra,” and the other disciples devotedly take care of him, who thinks about death due to the suffering of a serious illness. I'm just asking how Shakyamuni learned Buddhism. Eventually, Vaccari committed suicide, but Shakyamuni did not condemn the “way he died” itself in front of his disciples. However, this does not mean that they are tolerating suicide, and in scenes where Shakyamuni responds to disciples thinking about death, etc., they strongly hoped “I want them to be alive.”

It's being reborn every day

You must have gone through a difficult life.
Please continue to confide all of your heart in the future.
I'm not the enemy, so please talk about anything.
There are a lot of Osho people reading your worries on this site.
It's safe to say that your worries will be cut in half just by professing.
You were canceled and counteracted in your life, and you probably had a series of self-denial.
As a result, I couldn't love myself, and I couldn't believe it.
But I want my true intentions to be affirmed, and I want to be acknowledged, but people around me don't do that. it must be painful. Please don't worry. Most people fall under ADHD. I don't think you should think of it as something special. Don't look at the diagnosis table and associate anything with “Oh, this is me.” Think of it as fishing to sell you medicine.
Irresponsible people give humans sick names without permission, so it's also important to stay calm and not be fooled by that method. It will interfere with business, so I'm only telling you this.
You have excellent qualities. It means being instantly interested in various things.
It's the ability to discern what you really need.
You should seek your true self.
Classifiers will name you as ADHD, but your mind is constantly changing. It has been reborn. Now, even when I'm doing this, you'll be able to read my answers slowly and calmly. The human mind is a free way of being without being bound by a name. That is Buddhism.
You're probably not worried 24 hours a day.
Disgusting things may have been said, but right now, your ears are probably only hearing the current sound.
Even if a flashback occurs, it probably doesn't mean that blood is coming out of the body anywhere.
Your heart will continue to grow and be reborn.
That will only change if you have a strong determination not to be hurt by your own feelings.
★ Don't take suggestions from others.
☆ Don't rely on your own suggestions.
That kind of thing is just brain information. There is no actual situation. It's a funny flickering that's inferior to shadows you can't grab. Many people are fooled by thinking that this flickering is real.
You should hope not to be fooled by your own thoughts.
It makes life happier.

Regarding “suicide”...

Mr. Advance

This is Kawaguchi Hidetoshi. This is my humble answer to the question.

Questions about “suicide”... There have been a few questions until now, but it is a really nervous and difficult issue, and I know that extreme prudence is required even on the side that answers it.

first...

Question “Why you shouldn't commit suicide”
http://hasunoha.jp/questions/330

From the point of view in the humble answer, it is a basic poor way of thinking that suicide due to ignorance or distress will, after all, become “bad work,” and it will be inevitable that it will have a bad effect on the next reincarnation. However, even if I ask if suicide not due to ignorance or distress is possible, I mentioned this a little bit in my answer to the question “About My Own Death” http://hasunoha.jp/questions/98, as it is extremely difficult...

Honestly, as an answer to “is it a crime to commit suicide?” I would like to answer, “Suicide due to ignorance or worry is very likely to be a crime = misconduct, so I cannot recommend it very much.”

Also, in the question below, I have just mentioned a little bit about the relationship with reincarnation.

Question “Refusal of treatment due to bipolar disorder and breast cancer”
http://hasunoha.jp/questions/282

In the thank you section, “I did a little research on Shakyamuni.” However, I do know that this is truly the first step towards a major “step forward” towards a solution. I would be very grateful if you could take this opportunity to advance your studies of Buddhism little by little. I am sure that I will also be able to encounter teachings that can heal the suffering of Jinzen-sama. Please also refer to the humble answers to the questions and answers below.

The question “What should we do now? Please give me some advice.”
http://hasunoha.jp/questions/457

Kawaguchi Hidetoshi Gassho