hasunoha

I'm slow

I'm wondering if I can ask this question here, but I'll try it out.
I want to stop masturbating, commonly known as forbidding masturbation.
I always try my best and I can only put up with it for 3 days.
When you masturbate, tremendous fatigue remains in your body the next day.
How can I put up with it?
I want you to tell me.
By the way, I want you to stop answering that no, you don't have to put up with it.

5 Zen Responses

Graduation is better than patience.

Hello.
Buddhism teaches how to let go of obsessions.

I swore I'd put up with it, but I did it again.
I regret it when it's over.
As long as I think I have to put up with it, I think the same thing will happen over and over again.

You'll still not be satisfied even if you keep putting up with it.
Why don't you think about graduation rather than putting up with it?
Is what comes to mind when Roy puts up with it the same thing that comes to mind when thinking about graduating from masturbation?
If there's anything you can do to prepare for the masturbation and graduation that will come someday, please be prepared.

One more thing: I can't think of graduation.
If you want to stick with patience, find a reason to put up with it for others.
You can change the rules you've decided at your own convenience.
Humans aren't strong enough to be able to continue putting up with patience that only they carry on their shoulders.
Meanwhile, I know a lot of people who continue to work hard without thinking hardships are a pain if it's patience for someone else.

If masturbation is not a physiological instinct and is a substitute for something that is not satisfying, then I believe that it will be satisfied in some way.

You shouldn't put up with it.

 On the contrary, that comfort may be accompanied by a sense of guilt. However, if it accumulates, it will naturally cause wet dreams, so I think it should be excreted moderately. Defecation is the same as urinating.

If you are putting up with “wanting to impose something on yourself,” why not put up with other things?

However, “when you masturbate, tremendous fatigue remains in your body the next day.” I'm worried that it's there. Are you physically exhausted or mentally exhausted? It's usually refreshing, so I was worried about that.

Are you masturbating properly?

 Roy. First off, I salute your courageous questions. I would also like to answer that seriously. For the time being, masturbation is prohibited according to Buddhist precepts.
However, you must also get married from now on and live as a father to have children, so medically, you must masturbate regularly. Does sperm have a lifespan or best before date? There is such a thing, and saving for 3 days or more is not good for your health. Sperm is produced for a lifetime unless you have a special illness. This is what a man's lifelong active duty is.
It is said that masturbating makes you tired, but this may be because you are not masturbating properly. I will refrain from explicit expressions here, so I can't explain in detail, but for details, you can see various masturbation methods (reliable ones) compiled by researchers on the internet, so let's masturbate properly. Otherwise, if you continue like this, you may have erectile dysfunction during sexual intercourse or premature or delayed ejaculation during ejaculation. Furthermore, masturbating incorrectly is not good for the body due to the same fatigue as the physical strength when dashing 1,200m already.
Based on that, if I were to put up with it, there is something I did when I was a student. Living together. I don't use my room, study in the library, play outside, and at my friend's house. When I go to bed, I go to bed right away. Read long comics. Use Japanese-style toilets. That's all I can answer with hasunoha. Sorry for the lack of cooperation.
 

Don't leave out the nameplate unnecessarily.

Below, girls* viewing is prohibited.
Just in case, the language conversion process was performed in oblate.
Men are males, so they have a rooibo called Know, Ignorance, and Ignorance.
Don't lose to Kinta next to Sinking! Duskin Tama River! That is, Inari will sit down. Inari-sama is a fox. It's a golden (konjiki) ball (gyoku) that makes a loud cry.
For us males, eggs are automatically produced in conger balls.
As long as it is standard equipment, it is natural for sexual desire to occur straight to the right in Maeda.
According to the noble Western European academic health and physical education manual I learned, it seems that 500 animals are produced per second at the factories on the left and right.
In other words, it should be assumed that over 10,000 animals were made in the meantime... well, they were born, and then they came.
This is the incarnation of Omei Nyorai, Future Hotoke, and Miroku Nyorai.
Please touch the Inari shrine and feel the warmth of its precious life.
300 million white melodies played by Nyoibo and Debussy.
Along with that, 300 million lives were lost.
This is why they are dried and stored almost as soon as they are born. Let me think about that. You shouldn't play dissonance unnecessarily.
As for animals, early spring is the season for tanezuke, so even in my garden, cats have been joking since a while ago.
If praying mantises are done, they will be eaten by females. The dwarf gerbil has to find a partner in just 1 or 2 days.
In other words, this is life force in the true sense of the word. Since it is a secret or secret matter relating to the birth of life, it should be respected. This function must not be confused with human sexual desire and erotic culture.
The famous sword was not removed unnecessarily, so I waited with the famous sword.
Swords also fall off their main path depending on how they are handled.
Depending on how you handle it, the famous sword Masamune is also a demon sword Masamune, an evil sword, and a double-edged sword that can hurt yourself. It means men are responsible for that.
A Zen monk went from one village to another during his ascetic practice, and he saw it on the spot. It seems that they were poking and smelling at the root of the proposal after use.
In the world of monks, it is said that one of the reasons people were less willing to eat meat since ancient times is that it was to reduce the desire to eat meat.
Keep your diet simple, reduce junk food and meat, and by cutting it off little by little, your voice will go away, and it will be very painful, harmless to humans and animals.

About masturbating

Mr. Roy

This is Kawaguchi Hidetoshi. This is my humble answer to the question.

Worries about wanting to put up with masturbating... Appropriate masturbation is necessary as a physiological function, but if it causes trouble to others, or if adverse effects occur even to things that should be done, such as studying, etc., I know if it is necessary to exercise restraint.

Also, even if there are various adverse effects, if you can't stop or stop, there will be a slight suspicion of “sexual addiction.” Well, I don't think Roy would view sexual desire as much of a problem when it comes to young teenage sexual desire, but...

If it is dependency, there is a possibility that they are also refraining from mental problems such as some mental anxiety or stress, etc., so I think it will be suppressed if mental stability and mental satisfaction can be obtained by solving that problem and dealing with the problem.

In the case of severe dependency, you may not be able to control it yourself and there is nothing you can do about it. Therefore, it may be necessary to seek treatment at an appropriate medical institution or counseling. Of course, in Roy's case this time, I don't think that much is necessary.

However, in the future, I think it would be nice if you could set your own rules and try to keep them in check.

For example, don't do it until school assignments are over, don't do that until school is over, etc., and I don't do that until you've finished this, I don't do that, so I think it's okay to try to free up space little by little. Of course, proper processing is necessary, so there is no need to put up with extra patience, but if you think about the future, you may need to exercise some restraint.

Anyway, denying the physiological functions and reproductive functions that humans normally have can also deny the meaning of existence of the human species and the significance of one's own existence, so that's not good, but if you are too dependent on something and fall into the extreme, there is a high possibility that some kind of problem has occurred, so I think we must be careful about that.

I pray for good deeds.

Kawaguchi Hidetoshi Gassho