hasunoha

I don't know what to do

A woman I know is in debt, and it seems that she also got involved in loan sharks. They asked me to prepare the money since it's only a little while away. I declined because I also have an intractable illness and don't have any savings. She says that all of her friends have been turned down and she has no one to rely on. I was told that if I refused again, I would commit suicide, and images were also sent. I don't have any money either, should I get into debt and give them money?
She's a woman in the water business.

4 Zen Responses

Kindness without lending

Looking at the circumstances of the story, it is normal in the world that even if you get into debt and lend money to her, it is unlikely that you will come back. The person who made the loan to you will also be bothered. This is a chain of suffering. There is a saying from financial institution insiders, “it is kind to lend, and kind not to lend.” Why don't you support her with “unselfish kindness” this time around? In order to break the chain, specifically, I think it is best to go to a consultation center for multiple debtors together, explain the detailed situation, and get expert advice.

Bad bugs

So, let's say you get caught by a suicide threat and give it money...
Do you even think you'll be appreciated?
Do you think it's going to be popular?

A good-old man being turned into a duck.
It's really pathetic.

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Let's talk to the counter right away

I read it.
If it is a debt of a black money dealer, the first step is to consult with the consultation desk. It is very difficult for individuals to respond. It could also be an illegal debt.
Please contact the consultation desk as soon as possible.
https://www.fsa.go.jp/soudan/
http://www.kokusen.go.jp/soudan_topics/data/saimu.html
https://www.houterasu.or.jp/
https://www.npa.go.jp/goiken_index.html

Please get support from many people as soon as possible.
There is always a way to solve it.
Never hug and ask for help and support without worrying alone or two.
I sincerely pray that you and you will be freed from such things and that you can live every day with peace of mind.

Absolutely no good.

If it's about committing suicide
You should go bankrupt yourself.

Who is the kind of person who uses life for transactions
It would be better if we became estranged.