Reasons why you can't succeed

Moko-sama
Nice to meet you, my name is Tetsuya Urakami from Nagomi-an.

When it comes to street performers, I also feel surprisingly close to my acquaintances, who have quit their jobs and started aiming for the crown.
Moko's goal is not at the level of name recognition, income, or performance, but rather “being loved the most in the world.” It's a unique goal, and I think it's very good.

Well, there are a lot of people who comment on blogs and Facebook. I don't know if that means being loved, but I feel like people like that often make comments themselves. If you get involved a lot with others, does that mean they will also get involved?

Also, I think people who are loved are used to being loved. If you grow up receiving love in your childhood, you may be able to naturally return love to people.
Apart from her mother, Moko doesn't like her father. Also, if you kept being bullied, you probably didn't like your friends when you were a student either.

Please dive deep into your own memory. Childhood, elementary school students, middle school students, high school students...
Do you have any good memories with your dad?
Don't you have any friends who have protected you at least once?

Just the other day, there was a question and answer saying “I can't laugh well.”
http://hasunoha.jp/questions/505
They grew up with a violent father and a frightened mother, and they don't seem to be good at laughing.
However, I read the answers from the monks and noticed that there was love from the parents (as written in “Thanks from the Questioner” at the bottom). I'm sure they will build new relationships with their families in the future.

Moco. Can Moko treat people who “don't love people close to them, and even think “it would be nice if they just disappeared” with love? Isn't it difficult to get others to take care of you when you don't care about yourself? Even though such people can worry, it's probably difficult for them to have radiant love.

Before the feud with your father, it's about yourself first. Moko has a dream for street performers and continues to work hard, so why not start by acknowledging yourself and making them feel proud of yourself?

We sincerely hope that we can get even one step closer to our goals.

The existence of parents is the entity that made you exist in this world.
No matter what kind of parent you are, just keep in mind that if you hate or grudge, that energy of anger (anger) will definitely return to you.
In other words, if you hate not only your parents but someone else, that energy will affect your work and cause trouble.
If you're evaluating people in the first place, you should evaluate at least 10.
Among them, even if you hate 9 and hate 9, you should be able to find a good place for about 1.
If you don't turn even 1 out of 10 into forgiveness energy, you will self-destruct.
Why do you say nothing but bad things about people is that they generate toxic gas.
Because that's what's happening in your mind.
It is tantamount to the act of completely denying oneself.
This is because if you have even a little bit of forgiveness, it will work as a savior good bacteria in your heart and make your life happy.
If you're looking for a good friend of your selfish and selfish father, “give 100 steps and enjoy life in your own way and be free,” “I'm blessed with insensitivity that doesn't feel it even when it bothers people,” “I didn't let my family lose their way on the street,” etc. (^▽^;).

Incidentally, I respect a street performer named Kawahara Akira.
As you probably know, I don't think anyone makes people as happy as that person.
I think he's a genius street performer who has everything: the power to cheer people up, laughter, talk skills, empathy, and a way to take time out.
Among the stories, I always have a feeling of gratitude that “Itoigawa's mother...” (^<^)
Success isn't just about being good on one side.
Being mentally healthy is better than success with money, awareness, etc.
I think it's more valuable than people who have succeeded and become unhappy, or people who can't overcome their anger or resentment even if they succeed.
(^<^)　　

　Moco. There is a story like this in the Buddha's story.
One day, a mother who lost her child at a young age came to talk to the Buddha.
Mother: “I'll do anything, so please let this kid come back to life.”
Buddha “Okay, then if you can find a house where no one died, I'll bring the child back to life.” I said that.
But the mother understood the impermanence that death could happen to anyone anywhere without being found, and honestly accepted the child's death...
You ask, “Can't you succeed while you have a feud with your father?” As you said, I think everyone has had trouble with relationships with parents or friends? A word from the eagle. “You're not alone.” There are a lot of differences in how to overcome it. I think someday I'll find my own solution. Later, succeeding as an entertainer and the resolution of her father's feud are different issues. Lack of practice, lack of study, lack of expression, etc. Don't shift your responsibility onto others. Now, wouldn't it be much better to do something about street performers that can be solved right in front of you depending on your efforts rather than problems that can't be solved?
You know very well that only a handful of worlds succeed in street performers, right? If you're an entertainer, make bullying and feud with your father fertilize your performance. Incidentally, eagles are enriching their past experiences with Hasunoha's answers. Please check it out. I'd like to say, but time is limited, so as soon as you read this, please work hard at practicing and studying street performers.

Moco-sama

This is Kawaguchi Hidetoshi. This is my humble answer to the question.

First of all, what is success... This is different in terms of individual values, so “this is success” cannot be said unequivocally, but please first refer to the following content, which deals with a little bit about “happiness,” in relation to it.

Question “I can't find a purpose to live, and getting a job is depressing”
http://blog.livedoor.jp/hasunoha_kawaguchi/archives/1003004333.html

“... if you want to seek good rewards and good results in this life, you still need a cause and relationship (condition) for that. There is no way that good rewards or happiness will come by itself from somewhere without any cause or relationship. In order for seeds to germinate, water, light, nutrients, and causes and relationships for germination are necessary, and seeds alone do not result in germination without cause or relationship with water, light, nutrients, etc. In order for happiness to sprout, a certain cause and relationship is necessary, and in Buddhism, this is what becomes a “good act.” ・・”

For Moko, “becoming the most loved street performer in the world” will probably be her success and happiness, but of course, various causes and conditions (relationships) are necessary for that. The fact that success has not yet been achieved is because the causes and relationships have not progressed sufficiently.

There seems to be an idea that there is a feud with the father as one cause of this lack of progress, but when it comes to whether or not that is a hindrance to success, I think the impact of bad luck is minimal.

Of course, since understanding of Moko's activities has not been obtained from her father, and if there are times when you are not receiving any help or support that would normally be received, and there are cases where sufficient activities have not been completed, I think it is OK to think of that as one of the causes.

Anyway, rather than feuds, I would like to recommend that those who have actually succeeded in that world can determine in detail what kind of causes/relationships they have been devoting their efforts until then, and that they can adjust those causes and relationships one by one by themselves. One of them is that if you have family or father, etc., I hope you can honestly think about making improvements.

I wish you every success.

Kawaguchi Hidetoshi Gassho