The way of life ahead. Reconstruction or divorce?

I think there's a difference between forgiveness and forgiveness.
Forgiving someone means forgiving after thinking that you are the center and that the other person is one of the things you belong to. In other words, it is human forgiveness and binding forgiveness where there are conditions.
Forgiveness means forgiveness, God's forgiveness, and Buddha's forgiveness. There are no restrictions there.
Originally, it was a world where neither one's opponents were mine, nor anyone else's.
They forgive each other after understanding that they don't essentially belong to anything, so it's natural to forgive each other.
Even though they are married couples, they are different beings.
Even if they are parents and children, they are different life forms.
True love is born after acknowledging it.
You can be saved by building a relationship where you can forgive each other.
Let's review the relationship.
Is it hate, blame for crime, resentment, jealousy, grudge, dependency life?
or
Is it happiness, forgiveness, gratitude, mutual support, independent life?
Why don't you take a few months to see through the other person's sincerity? Is that false or just lip service?
You're also a mother. Showing children an attitude of forgiveness as a mother is an education for children. Also, if you show that figure to your husband, your husband will be ashamed. If you don't feel ashamed, that's the level of humanity you have. It's just that the person himself is being burned by the fire of his own ego.
You are walking the path of forgiveness and forgiveness in order to seek higher spirituality.
❝ Even if it's my husband, I can't make it my own, so no one else can make it my own. ❞
By leaving your sense of ownership, you'll be set free and awaken to another dimension of love.

Kokoran-sama

This is Kawaguchi Hidetoshi. This is my humble answer to the question.

Regarding cheating and infidelity, we also handle each of the following questions.

http://blog.livedoor.jp/hasunoha_kawaguchi/tag/浮気
http://blog.livedoor.jp/hasunoha_kawaguchi/tag/不倫

Question “My married sister left the house after having an affair with a married person.”
http://blog.livedoor.jp/hasunoha_kawaguchi/archives/1003472314.html

In this humble answer, “... in the world, if it's something you like, I'll forgive, acknowledge, and believe anything, but if it's a bad act, it's a completely different story. Rather, reprimanding bad acts, making them repent, and make them make amends is the true form of love. I have stated “...”, but when I look at Kokoran's words, “No matter what is done to you, I can't dislike it,” I wonder if I can overlook even my husband's bad behavior...

Adultery/cheating alone is a splendid miscarriage, but this time, when my husband made her cheating partner get pregnant... I think the other woman had quite a bit of physical injury and mental harm... that may also have had some impact on the miscarriage due to various burdens, anxiety, negative factors, pressure, etc. in an adulterous relationship... It's quite speculation, but I wasn't able to cherish my blessed “life” However, I think there were even a few...

It's over with that woman, and that woman is over, and I think it's really difficult to forgive in terms of humility, and of course they should be made to make some kind of compensation.

First of all, I wonder if the memorial service for Mizuko, who had a miscarriage, and whether she properly cared for the woman she was dealing with, and how about starting to make them apply moral criticism from there. I would like to suggest that the degree of remorse and compensation of the husband be estimated and measured while considering divorce as one of the options of course.

Kawaguchi Hidetoshi Gassho