Mototoko-sama
This is Kawaguchi Hidetoshi. This is my humble answer to the question.
We've received questions about not being familiar with the workplace before.
Question “I don't get used to it at work, and I'm worried about not being able to work”
http://blog.livedoor.jp/hasunoha_kawaguchi/archives/1002972533.html
“... If there are things or ideas you don't actively understand, etc., as is the case at meetings, I think it would be good to exchange questions and opinions little by little with team members in the common room, cafeteria, etc., without worrying too much about regular, irregular, short-term positions, or positions. ・・”
I think that lack of communication has become a major issue when it comes to human relationship issues.
Most of the time, fear and anxiety are caused by not really understanding or not knowing. Even in human relationships, there is Sun Tzu's art of war that “if you know him and know yourself, you can hardly fight a hundred battles,” but anyway, I think it is essential to be able to handle any situation by knowing your own temperament and your opponent's temperament in detail.
In order to get used to the workplace, I think it would be a good idea to start by getting to know the atmosphere, relationships, human qualities, etc. in detail, including good and bad ones. To that end, I believe that everyday communication from casual things will become essential.
The rest is to develop proper ability and insensitivity.
Question “I'm worried about changing jobs or putting up with it”
http://blog.livedoor.jp/hasunoha_kawaguchi/archives/1003293425.html
“... When it comes to relationships, it's all about getting to know the other person very well. I believe that by getting to know the other person, it may be possible to devise ways so that they can respond well. Also, I don't think I have to be good friends with everyone. A group of different people, that's impossible. Appropriate ability and insensitivity are also questioned in a sense there. It is also necessary to divide what is impossible into impossible. ・・”
However, if it is absolutely impossible, your body or mind will be broken and you will have no parents or children, so of course, don't overdo it.
I pray for good deeds.
Kawaguchi Hidetoshi Gassho