The balance between “knowing enough” and “ambition”
Happy new year.
I pray that it will be a healthy year for all of you.
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I have a question about how to balance “knowing enough” and “ambition.”
■The content of the question
・There is no end to human worries
・I understand that “contentment” is important in order to successfully deal with worries
・On the other hand, in order to have a better life, “ambition” is necessary
・However, “contentment” and “ambition” sometimes seem incompatible
・Therefore, I would like to receive your opinions on proper use of the two
■Background of the question
・I have been working hard with the goal of improving my body, mind, abilities, etc. (= growing into myself who can satisfy desires)
・This is because I have thought that I can achieve happiness for myself and those around me as a result
・However, at one point, I noticed that my happiness level wasn't increasing
・At that time, I realized the importance of “contentment,” and I had a strong interest in coming to terms with “ambition.”
・I thought about the following 2 patterns for how to properly use both
■Hypothesis ①
You should use them properly as follows for the purpose of the act (for the other party/for yourself)
[Good example]
A I want to do work that is more pleasing than “for the other person” x “ambition” (example)
B “for myself” x “contentment” (example) a vegetarian diet is enough
[Bad example]
C “for the other party” x “contentment” (example) the quality of the current job is sufficient
D I want to eat more delicious meals “for myself” x “ambition” (example)
■Hypothesis ②
・There is no need to think about the balance between “contentment” and “ambition.”
・Being able to satisfy one's own desires and “ambition” to grow into oneself is important
・Paradoxically, the experience of satisfying ambition (desire) makes it possible to grasp a “sufficient line”
・The experience of realizing an expanding sense of ambition (desire) makes you experience that “it does not satisfy oneself and does not last long”
・Contentment is not something you can understand with your head. I need to let them learn
(Example) Earn more money and spend money on meals. As a result, both the finest yakiniku and Famichiki are delicious, both are happy, and I experience that (actually) there isn't much difference between them.
However, if you stay poor all the time, you will inevitably be content to put up with weight loss. In order to “learn understanding,” it is essential to satisfy desires and experience “something like this.”
The fact that the Buddha was rich when he was a prince is a prerequisite for understanding.?
Sorry for the slightly vague question.
We look forward to working with you.
