hasunoha

Is it possible to have a love affair with a temple child?

I fell in love at first sight for the first time!
I met that person at a training session! I thought it was cool when I taught him at the seminar! I can't be in the same class as him anymore...
I don't know how to appeal!
What should I do? After all, doesn't love at first sight come true?

A friend told me he was a temple kid!
Are there any special rules for love when it comes to children in a temple?
Is it possible to have a normal relationship?

Sorry for all the questions!

3 Zen Responses

Of course! You can have a normal relationship!!

When it comes to marriage,
There are also issues that must be filled out in various ways (not limited to temples),
If you're going to have a normal relationship,
There's nothing wrong with that.
There are no special rules for love.

I don't know the details of the situation of the two of you,
So that Kazu's unrequited love will come true,
So that I can become a wonderful woman,
I'm thinking about it from here on out.

Please take good care of your feelings.

tonight.

I've never fallen in love at first sight, so I don't know what it feels like, but you felt in him something that came right away (^-^)
It's wonderful (^-^)

Your “love at first sight” feeling was cherished, and “I came up with the idea, but it's a good day!”
Let's take action so we don't regret it.

First of all, it's a different story if you're currently getting information such as his contact information, etc., but if nothing has been grasped yet, it seems that the first step is to gather information even through your friends.

They don't seem to be in the same class anymore, but I'm praying that they will try contact little by little and gradually become friends where we can email and call, and that the way we go will develop beyond that.

My love at first sight this time, and my encounter with him, is also some kind of “relationship.”
Even if it doesn't work, I hope that the feeling of falling in love at first sight will continue to be carefully nurtured in your heart and make use of it in your next encounter.
Also, it will cultivate a heart that values encounters with him, and furthermore, encounters with people.

P.S., you may get a special feeling just by hearing that it's a temple kid, but I myself have been in relationships with women just like any other man.
It's pretty normal.
Don't worry about that part (^-^)
Ryusuke Gassho

Love is fraught with obstacles

 What you're worried about is that he's a temple kid? The fact that I don't have the courage to confess to myself “This person lives in a different world from mine...” Aren't you trying to become the heroine of a tragedy because of things that are convenient for those around you? For example, even if that person is a temple child, there is something called the convenience of home in the house. For example, some families may have a curfew. There may also be families where it is a rule for the whole family to eat. They look for reasons to give up on something and create for themselves reasons why they can't confess.
If it's no good to be confessed, wouldn't it be fine? If he doesn't confess now, he may be confessed to someone else, or he may confess to someone he likes. Right now, I don't know how long the time you go in with this feeling will last. Your path in life is uncertain. So, you make your own way. It's all unsettling, but don't hesitate to go.
As a method, first search for a friend who is a member you met at the seminar and is on good terms with him, and ask, “Shall we do a review session for this seminar?” Let's invite them like that and have a review session with your friends at a family restaurant or the like. Then, when he came, he said, “This is also a relationship, so why don't we all exchange contact information?” Let's say that. If you can get a cell phone number, email number, and SNS, it will be easier to get in touch with him. From there on, let's go on good dates, study, and deepen our relationship. This is a technique I use a lot. We'll ask everyone for their contact information, so don't be suspicious. However, it depends on your efforts whether it works or not from there. I'm looking forward to your report.