There is no such thing as living a bad life because the judgment of “name and name judgment” is bad, or conversely, living a good life because it is good. The only thing that exists is whether those around you or the person concerned about that judgment act, act without worrying about it, or whether they make name judgments in the first place.
However, if you have made a decision, I think we should go ahead with the judgment at that time, and even if other elements come out bloated out, we should be more aggressive in “picking out” them.
It's a private matter, but my first child was born the other day, and I'm currently thinking about a name with my wife. There is a first candidate, but there are plenty of other candidates, and many people are saying various things, so I'm starting to not really understand it. But I wasn't thinking at all about how to determine my first and last name. So I was lightly shocked by the culture when I saw that Maru-san cared so much.
This is because there seem to be individual differences in the judgment of “name and name judgment” due to the thoughts of the person making the judgment, etc., and there are no few cases where it is seriously contradictory. (Also, I don't think judgment sites that say “new font” or “old font” are bad. (This is “current font” and “real character.”)
I think what is important in a name is what kind of “wish” or “thought” it contains. (From here on, it's also called “the first gift from parent to child.”) If it's a name that conveys your feelings, I think that's fine.
And what do you say?
While I was thinking hard at that time, I chose the one that I thought was the best name for my child. I think that's important. And even after making a decision, they are thinking so deeply and fervently about their children. They are raised with this feeling and this wish, so at least it seems to me that no matter what happens, they will surely grow up to be good children.
Let's work hard together...