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I don't like cute kids

To be honest, I'm a cute person. I'm thankful for that.

However, there are many girls cuter than me or just as cute, and I don't like that and I'm not convinced.
I get jealous of children who are ten years or older.

Also, will they be loved even if they aren't cute?
How can I stop feeling jealous like that?

4 Zen Responses

It's easy to get jealous of people like you

There are there, aren't there?
It's easy to get jealous of people who have something in common with them. On the other hand, it's hard to get jealous of people in a different world than your own.
For example, people who are good at music are more likely to be jealous of musicians and less likely to be jealous of baseball players.
This means that if you can find something you like or are good at in a genre other than “cute,” your jealousy of cute girls may decrease.
Also, I think it's important to be aware of compassion (the feeling of caring for others without hating others) on a regular basis.
Think that even with someone you hate, there are parts that you should look closely at, and imagine your partner and yourself all smiling and happy.

Do you know your “true cuteness”?

To put it bluntly,
You'll be loved (loved) even if you're not cute, and your sense of jealousy, which is the source of your trouble, should fade little by little. Please don't worry.

I think it's a very natural part of the mind to be jealous of the cuteness of a child much younger than yourself, or to feel like you're not loved (don't stay here) unless they're cute. There's nothing unique about it.

I think you're really blessed to be born so cute that you think you're a “cute person.” Even if you don't want to make them cuter than necessary, they are naturally “cute = lovable.”

Surely, childhood memories (accumulation of) of being said to be cute and cute may make you do that, but if you put something on it, measure something called “cuteness,” and compare it more than necessary, wasn't it because you had anxiety in your heart that “you can't be loved unless you're cute (don't stay here)”.

However, if you think about it carefully, there is no standard for measuring cuteness, etc., that is originally determined by this, and there are ten people, ten colors, and there are a lot of differences. (Of course, there are generally common values (standards) depending on the era, region, and ethnicity, but if you unravel them one by one, they are extremely individual subjectivity, and there are also subtle differences there.)

This means that what one person thinks is cute, another person doesn't think so, and only I feel that something that others don't think is cute (adorable). That kind of thing is quite natural, isn't it?

Once such unmistakable “facts” come to light within yourself, you should stop worrying too much about the cuteness of yourself or others.

Of course, if that happens, jealousy will naturally stop happening. Please don't force yourself (do your best) to try to lose or suppress your jealousy. If you do that, you won't be able to do anything extra.

Even if waves occur on the quiet surface of the lake, they will eventually calm down if left alone. If people try their hand to calm the waves, it won't fit in extra.

So why don't you take what you're feeling as a problem too seriously, think for yourself until the facts come to light, and deepen your own insight.

Sowaka Gassho

I'm sorry for being smart and cute “Tenjo Tenka Yuiga Dokuson” (^_-) - ☆

My name is Tange Bonge Buchaiku and I don't have enough of one of Buchaiku. Chu, diversity, chi, sorry for buchaik (^_-) - ☆
Heaven, the world, and I alone are the only ones who respect each other.
There is only one character with transcendental personality, this self, both above the heavens, and there is only one moment now that exists in a scene of history that will eventually be forgotten, the 5th year of Reiwa, 9/1.
As you age, deteriorate, or become more beautiful today, this is no time to worry about other people's cuteness.
Get attention that you're the cutest in the world and be reigned as the most popular person, but you only have one family.
Who are they cute for and for what?
Let's also do it to be loved by your future partner Sama.
If you try to be cute in order to kick other women down, that spirit is ugly.
Please take a close look at how people come and go.
Each one is unique, unique, and diverse.
Everyone has their own face. It's a unique personality.
Just as you don't care so much about others, everyone else is living their own lives
Who cares about that person?
That person is probably “me,” that kid girl.
That child is this “me” called that person.
Therefore, if you worry too much about people, try to worry only about your runaway “self.” You should raise your mental awareness of beauty.
If you want to be cuter than anyone else, and want to be a beloved character, you must be aware of and purify “my self,” which deteriorates the runaway me within me → my mental femininity.
Apart from that, Buddha doesn't have a “CHU 💞 sorry for being cute (^_-) - ☆” attitude.
Thorough implementation of the supremacy of heaven, heaven, and supremacy.
Among the celebrities that are attracting attention in heaven, earth, and underground idols, there is only one person among all sentient beings, and all living things.
Be aware that they are irreplaceable, and let's be familiar with them, settle in, and be thorough.
That means I'm not aware of anything else you need, I don't compare myself to others, and I understand that I am the only incomparable being in the universe.
Read this smoothly and if you don't understand it properly, let's continue comparing it with others in the future.
There are things in the world that cannot be realized physically unless you study properly. If you don't leave your beauty to someone with proper skills, you'll end up with a difficult appearance. Let's make a proper excuse.

You have to polish your weapon

 Tokumei-san, I like cute people too. There's nothing you can do about suppressing this. That's because I was born with this face. But I don't think you can maintain cuteness without polishing, and if you don't do research, you won't know what is currently the cutest trend. It is important to continue practicing Buddhism. In the same way, don't maintain cuteness; you have to practice cuteness. “Going one step further” is what refines cuteness. There is no right answer to life. Deciding wins and losses in life is too narrow, isn't it? If being the way you are is cute, you can endure the pain, right? If that leads to tolerance, I think you're cute even when you can't see yourself.