I want to be a person who doesn't complain, complain, or speak ill of others

I read it.
You're worried that you'll just complain and complain as you go out into society from now on. I really understand that you are worried.
I feel like I can understand that you are worried that you will become a member of society from now on and end up complaining without taking any action.
While working as a member of a company or organization, you have to adapt to the people around you. Therefore, if work is progressing smoothly and there is a positive atmosphere within the workplace, there won't be many complaints, but if the work doesn't go well or the conditions are bad in terms of salary or treatment, complaints will naturally come up all over the place.
In such cases, there are places where it is quite difficult for individuals to go against that situation alone. No matter what, listening to unreasonable things and painful feelings from my seniors and colleagues creates a negative atmosphere, so it makes me want to feel bad. Since communication must be carried out in such cases, it is sometimes necessary to coordinate the conversation to some extent. There's also a sense of camaraderie as a workplace, so it's necessary to discuss it with each other.
But there's no need to hit it off and tune in. You probably have your will, and each has your own way of thinking and values. Therefore, it is also necessary to divide it as a work matter, and it is also important to clearly communicate your opinions and thoughts in important situations.
I think it's okay for you to calm down and do your own will and actions while observing and being confirmed by your surroundings without becoming just an emotional theory.
In any case, hastening will hurt the situation, so please don't be in a hurry, consider it calmly, make a firm decision, and act. I will support you from the bottom of my heart.

Hello.
grumbling...
I also throw up every day.
“Even though he's a monk?” You might think that, but since we're human, we have a lot of complaints, complaints, and complaints.

In such a case, why don't you try writing every day in a notebook?
If you write words drawn with your head in letters, they don't come together surprisingly. It's a disorganized place, or it became a sentence called “what's this,” and the meaning was unclear even for me...

And when I look back a few years later, I think “that's stupid ~ myself.”

I also have a notebook where I wrote down my complaints and grievances when I first entered the temple, but when I look back at it now, I'm amazed, “You're immature” and “what is this.”
At times like that, I'll hold my past self in my heart.
“You've been doing your best, aren't you?”
The other person who gave me a hug will eventually walk away. It's the same whether it's a parent or child or a spouse.
But if you look back on yourself and hug them with your heart, you won't leave forever.
It would be great if you could heal yourself.

Why don't you write a “complaint note” every day thinking it's such a perfect timing?

Hello 💀
I used to be a lecturer on positive thinking courses ✨ be positive about life and be positive ✨ more today than yesterday. Today rather than tomorrow. More now than today! Now, switch channels to a brilliant mind full of light. I was able to provide such support and support. The Buddha also talks up to 33 degrees, and my name is Tange Bonge Kikucho, which is not enough. ANTARLIA

We often talked about this at that suspicious meeting.
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Well then... repeat, after me.
“Bad talk, sham, complaint. Complaints and grievances are the cause of cancer.” ×3 times
The essence of bad talk, backtalk, complaints, complaints, and grievances is that they are stingy. It means DIS. It's undermining! That's not a good thing. In other words, think of it as doing something bad! I've always said it!
Don't speak ill of people? why? Do you know why? (°°°)
If you speak ill of yourself 💀 That's because you're speaking ill of yourself!
why?
No human error can identify the subject. So even if you say bad things about people or curse them, that toxin is secreted in your own brain.
That's why I'm fouling my brain juice and body and mind extract with toxins by speaking ill of myself.
That's why it has always been a really rational and reasonable teaching that you can't say bad things about people!
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So what is a mind that isn't affected?
Let's say you had a really deep and comfortable sleep tonight.
Good night's sleep cat zzz 🐈
the next morning...,
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Chun Chun 🐦
I woke up to the chirping of birds.
It was a really comfortable sleep...
Well, let's eat...
I turned on the TV.
Then there it was...! 💀
Energetic comedians made a loud voice starting in the morning, making some kind of noise, and it seemed like their comfort was getting dirty...
Let's change the channel.
If you change it, do online shopping... Imanerant 19800! si-ka-mo-!
Oh, let's do something else...,
If I change the channel, it's Japanese, but for some reason it's a K-drama every day. What's more, that usual flow in K-dramas where someone belittles someone, sets a trap, and tries to rise to power...
Let's change channels...,
... no... let's turn it off.
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Yes... that's fine 👼
People are influenced by what they see, hear, and touch, so they begin to be transformed.
Maintain and maintain the silence of your heart as if you were wearing a dharma robe. 👗