How to think about people you've never had a relationship with

Relationship is a general term for various conditions.
There is no need to think too hard, and “there was no connection” means “accepting the results” and “the results are everything,” and it means that you should brightly give up on what didn't work and move on.
Don't think “there was actually a relationship,” and let's think that the results are the only facts.
Buddhism teaches how to live a bright, peaceful, and happy life every day.
The phrase “there was no connection” is also a word derived from Buddhism, and it means “let's live brightly and relaxed for 1 second right in front of today.”
Also, if you are with someone who is depressed or frustrated, the lover you are with will also be uncomfortable.
For example, a family member says, “Ahhh! I'm so sick, damn it!” When I'm washing dishes while being frustrated, the family next to me also feels bad.
On the other hand, if you're happily washing dishes while humming, your family will also feel at peace.
If you can relax and be a smiling person like that every day, wouldn't it be easier for your lover to like you?

　Mi-chan, I understand the painful feelings of the past. Please take care of yourself
When I read enlightenment books, I also look back on my past and review my personality and experiences. I think that's the purpose of enlightenment books. So, I think the moment I read it was helpful, but after a while, I still thought I couldn't do it, that I was different from this author, and I went back to who I was until now
I think it's a relationship where you've met someone who wasn't right for you, so you can meet and spend time with someone with a different personality than before. If you want to find your ideal partner, it's best to analyze the people you've dated until now, and you have no choice but to find someone other than those people or change your own responses.
First, let's analyze it. I think life consists not only of encounters between men and women, but also of some relationships. It's a once-in-a-lifetime meeting, though. If I were more careful about that, your life might be enriched too. That's all for me

I read it.
I'm worried that my attitude and behavior were bad because it didn't last long with the person you've met until now. I don't know the details about you or the people you've been in a relationship with, but I really understand your painful feelings.
Well, even if you have a relationship, if you don't follow along with someone, you'll blame yourself for being bad, and you'll feel very sorry when you think about this and that. I feel that I can also understand the feeling that bothers you so much. No matter what, you're bound to feel that way.
Nonetheless, after all, each person is somewhat different, or their path of life has changed, their compatibility and values don't match, and the timing may not be right. It often happens that it is unavoidable due to natural flow.
Even if you definitely want to be tied to this person and live together, that may not be the case. On the other hand, what about this person? Even if you think about it, there are times when they somehow end up dating and getting married afterwards because they are surprisingly respectable, compatible, and feel safe being together.
Also, even if they get married, there are times when they try to live together and they don't fit after all, and later they suddenly change and end up getting divorced due to only fights.
So it's strange to meet and break up. Nor am I the only one to blame.
There are things I can see again as I meet various people and talk and share various things, and there are so many things I notice and grow anew. So please never despise yourself and don't blame yourself for being bad.
I sincerely pray that you will be blessed with truly wonderful encounters and relationships in the future, that you will be able to deepen relationships with your loved ones, respect each other, and grow compassionately, and that you will survive by feeling rich and happy from the bottom of your heart with your loved ones. And I will support you from the bottom of my heart. We wholeheartedly agree

Even if you understand male psychology, it doesn't necessarily mean it will work, and there are circumstances and timing at that time. It's not always going the way you want it to, is it?

I can't help but look back on my love that has ended. You can't match the answers. Also, as we age and experience, our feelings change, and so does our appeal.

Let's continue to refine your strengths, including future encounters. Let's not just look at it, but also get to know the world widely and connect with all kinds of people. Let's learn about wonderful relationships from people with whom we have a better relationship.