Even if I try, I can't get her.

If you only think about attacks on others, such as let's look back at others, there is a possibility that such an atmosphere will be conveyed to women.
If you think they are someone who seems dangerous somehow, it will be difficult for them to develop into a relationship.
In that case, why don't you start by living your life hoping for the happiness of others on a regular basis and improving your own personality?
Specifically, why don't you search the internet for a meditation method called “mercy meditation” and try it every day?
What you often hear about as a type that women like is probably a “kind person,” so why not be aware of mercy and hope for the happiness of others.
Also, even people who aren't popular with Japanese people may be popular with foreigners, so I think it's okay to consider dating foreigners as well.
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It may be better to be careful about bad breath or making loud noises when eating (breathing with the mouth during meals), etc.
Girls pat themselves quite a bit, even if they put on too much perfume.

I read it.
I read that she is very worried and suffering from not being able to do it. I've also read questions from before.
I don't know the details of your heart, but I understand your painful feelings.

Why don't you just take your time and calm down and take a look at yourself? Why don't you calm down and calmly review your attitude and behavior?

What if you were a woman?

What do you think of people who direct anger, hatred, resentment, cursing, or violent behavior at themselves?

Would you like to be in a relationship where you want to get close to someone who is violent? Don't you feel in danger if you are aggressively violent or treated in a disgusting manner?

Both you and your partner are human, and if you treat them kindly, they will ease your feelings, and little by little they will forgive your heart.

I think the other person's attitude will change depending on your own way of life and how you feel compassion for others.

Please take a close look at it.

I sincerely pray that you can carefully respect each other and deepen your relationship with those you have a relationship with, and that you can do it by caring for each other and sharing a wonderful and happy life.
And I will support you from the bottom of my heart. We wholeheartedly agree

I see, if that's the case, why don't you try a relationship as a contract?
That's because violently dominating and dating is a crime that neglects people's lives, violates human rights, and is a crime.
I think relationships also come in many forms.
Or maybe there's a way to feed them. And relationships and feelings may change after that.
Why don't you meet and go out with each other in various ways?

Please take a break and try to calm down.

For now, any form is fine, so why not try going out with them? Why don't you go out with someone to the extent that it's not an illegal act. Why don't you test relationships without really liking them...

It might be a good idea to go to a marriage agency or something to do matchmaking.
Also, ask a friend's girlfriend to introduce her friends or go to a street party.
Even if you can't get a girlfriend, your acquaintances may increase, and if your acquaintances increase, the possibility that you can have a girlfriend will also increase.
Also, it is like expanding the allowable range of age, region, and appearance of romantic partners.
It might be a good idea to make them think he's a man who can work hard. If you can do your job, you'll gain confidence, so maybe you'll develop masculinity.
Also, if you try various things and expand your hobbies and special skills, it's good to spread the topic of conversation. It will also enrich your life.
I'm married, but I haven't been popular since I was a kid, so I understand how you feel.
I hope you have a good relationship.

Thank you so much for your response.
There are times when everyone feels like that when they're shaken. But it's too early to give up. That's because it's common for me to go out with women who need me completely unexpectedly while getting to know people of all ages, young and old with interest while working seriously. If you have confidence in kindness, cherish it as it is, and add a little bit of masculinity, humor, or spice to become a man with taste.

I was curious about the last line that said it was about to reach its limit. What happens to you when you reach your limit...

I'm sorry for the argument in the first place, but is it bad if I don't have a girlfriend? What do consultants need her for in the first place? Wouldn't it be easier if you could just use your days off for yourself?

I value a way of living in solitude without fear of loneliness.

　Hello. There have been efforts and wishes up until now, but they have not come true.
“Kindness is of no use. “Well then, I'll do it the other way around” is a sign of what you so desperately want, and I understand that you want a girlfriend from the bottom of your heart.
However, even so, I don't think treating them coldly or harshly is the way to make your wishes come true.
After all, I think “kind people are better,” but if you say, “There's no one as kind as me, but if that doesn't work, I'll do it to my heart's content!” If so, it might be an experience to try acting like that.
If you've gained some conviction from your experience up until now, it might be a good idea to try it out.
But I don't want to incite. “Learning by hurting someone” may be unavoidable as a result, but I want you to avoid it as a result. “When I told them to try it, I hurt people. You can't do it even if they say, “Take responsibility for that.”
When it comes to that... the boy's “kindness” and your “kindness” are the same words, but maybe there's something different. For example, is “being able to make all of the other person's wishes come true by doing anything, even if it's impossible” kindness? I think it's worth thinking about.
Then what I'm worried about is your sudden change. After all, people who change drastically when relationships change tend to be kept at a distance.
At any rate, you have gained conviction, or rather conviction. I think actions that are not “because someone told you to do it” have a certain degree of purity. Wouldn't testing it out to see if it works will be an opportunity for you to review yourself, no matter what the results are?
Hasunoha is basically a question one answer, but you can continue the conversation. I don't think I'm the only one who cares about your future.

Nice to meet you, hello.

I see, can't you have a girlfriend?
hmm.

The man who isn't satisfied and I have different personalities, so I don't impose “this is it” completely unequivocally, but in my case, I had someone I liked, and it was hard not being able to go out with that person, but without anyone I liked, “I want a girlfriend!” I never thought that. So I thought it would be nice if I could change that way of thinking.

In my case, when I fell in love with someone who seemed like “a person with perfect personality, and the embodiment of beauty and cuteness,” I gradually came to understand that they were all rich people, and even so, I liked them, wanted to be with them, and then I felt sad that they didn't become my girlfriend. A specific person.

What does it mean for an unsatisfied man to be able to have a girlfriend? Is “being kind” or “being kind,” which comes up like a keyword important? Certainly, when you have a girlfriend, you can be kind (and sometimes). (or just sex? (That's not her...)

I also fell in love with someone and sought them out, and there were times when I had a girlfriend, but it didn't end with just being kind. Things that are convenient for me don't just happen, and it's not always a time when I'm lovey-dovey. There are times when they don't treat you kindly, and there are times when you can't be kind. Also, in my sense, being kind is a feeling of doing as much as possible no matter who you are dealing with. I've been kind, so what what do you do! I don't have much intention of doing that.

To the extreme, I think it would be boring if someone I don't like becomes a girlfriend. However, if someone asks you to, I think it's okay to stay in a relationship even if you don't like them, and then wait if your thoughts or thoughts change. (I'm married now, so I'm cutting everything off, but I don't need that strong belief; I don't have to do it at all)

Once you have someone you like, and if you want to go out with that person, I think something will change a little more.

Do you understand the feeling of liking? The reason I hear that is because it seems that there are people who don't understand “likes.” When referring to “The Cat Who Lived One Million Times,” etc., I think “I want to be by my side” is close to “I want to be by my side.”

I think it would be nice if everything went well.

　It's hard being a man who isn't satisfied. I'm not popular at all during the period when I want my number one lover, and I can't talk to people of the opposite sex. Are your mind and body okay? They seem to be complaining out of bad faith, so please write any amount of grudge here. If you just take a step outside, don't say that even if you think about it. Please take care of yourself.
I also had a losing streak in my 20s with “good people, good people, good people.” However, when I came back after finishing my training, I was able to hear voices from women. I wonder if the popularity season has come in the 30s? and a misunderstanding? However, since my personality is a bit out of touch, I haven't been able to date women. but What I was told was that the contents were pointed out rather than my appearance. Maybe until they are in their early 20s, women have the most appearance, and when they are in their 30s, women who have gained experience are important in their appearance, but what is inside is also a material for judgment? I experienced it. However, there is no way that something born with such a thing can be changed. I have also dealt with various clients, believers, monks, etc., and I also have the right to choose my partner, and I also have the right to choose. Each person also has different forms of happiness. If you look at it huh, you'll see a lot of things. I also thought that without training, I wouldn't have learned how to deal with people.
If you really like that person, please cherish what that person is important to you and what they value. On the other hand, I thought it would be better not to go out with someone if you don't value what you value. Humans also have a disaster-like personality called the froggy phenomenon. If you go out with someone like this, I think you have no choice but to think that it's a disaster.
It is said that 70% of young people break up before graduation, even if couples are formed among students.
At first glance, they don't seem to be struggling, and they continue to be in a relationship with more than twice as much trouble from when they start dating. Moreover, once you get married, you will be further spurred by hardships with your parents and relatives, so please cultivate an eye for people to calmly look at people by summarizing human observations and your own failure stories within the present.
I'm sorry. That's all for me.