It's dead...

My father died.
Even though I was doing so well, even though I had tests, it was only a little over 2 months since my illness was discovered. It was surprisingly quick.
I was afraid this would happen, so I said let's talk. But they didn't take those words head-on.

My father was a really amazing person. We have also volunteered a lot in the community. There are still many projects left that my father started, and regional ties have also been created. The funeral home surprised me when it was the first funeral where so many local people gathered. I was told many times by strangers that my dad was really indebted to me.
Since I was a kid, I've been handling consultation calls to my father many times. I've been listening to their stories so much that I'm amazed.

At last, I had never heard such grumbling words, such as painful or painful, until the end. My doctor told me many times that I think I'm already in quite a bit of pain. Right before I passed away, I woke up with my back straight every morning, prepared myself, and woke up saying good morning.
After exhausting my strength, the last thing I did the day I went out to the garden was to plant flowers. It seems that they laughed that this flower will bloom beautifully in spring. Since my father passed away, it has bloomed beautifully.

When my father made reforms so that everyone could work more freely, a very welcoming voice was raised from the field, but it seems that he was violently taunted by his predecessor. It seems that the surroundings were quite upset, but it seems that my father handled it brilliantly and calmly until the end. was everything okay? When my mother called out, she said, “I'm not going to be discouraged by this,” and it seems that she laughed.

Once upon a time, there was a time when I couldn't go to school. My father didn't change anything in my everyday life, but he silently took me to work because I was locked up at home. Every day I silently helped with work, ate lunch at my father's favorite restaurant, worked again in the afternoon, and went home. I didn't say anything in particular, but I've always been grateful for that time.

I don't have a personality where I can stay still, so at the end I said that I would start something new again, even over there, and left.

I wanted to talk more.
Yes... I just wanted to talk more with you.
Why aren't they there anymore?

4 Zen Responses

He's a great dad. It's sad, but the time to break up will come, right?

　My father's awesomeness is conveyed from each and every one of the questions. I don't know the details, but he was a person who was able to accumulate many virtues for each and every one of them for the sake of the community. I would like to express my sincere condolences.

Your father is a very talented person who left many achievements. Even if he was such an able father, I don't think he was Superman. I think many plans and reforms were realized precisely because there were many people who agreed and cooperated with my father's proposals and plans. Of course, I think it was because of the splendor and popularity of my father's ideas, but I think it was realized with the help of many supporters and collaborators.
Looking at the profile, it seems that there are many problems with my current life. When Yua-san is in trouble, talk to various people, get advice, and ask them to lend their help. Even if your father is capable and has achieved many results, you can't do everything on your own. I think my father was a person who was good at getting approval and cooperation from those around him. I think this is also a huge talent.

I wanted them to live even longer and be there to help me at some point. Since he is a big person and always supported me, I think the pain I lost was also huge. But I think my memories will live on in Yua-san. When you're in trouble, when you're in trouble, “What would you do if you were a dad?” “What would your father say?” If you ask the question, isn't it possible to get an answer or find a clue to a solution in quite a few cases? I think there are a lot of answers and hints built into Dad's life. I can't get along like I did when I was alive, but I think Dad will continue to help Yua.

Since your parents' house is far away, it may be difficult to go to pray frequently. Even from a distance, if you express your sincere gratitude and pray for souls, I think your feelings will surely be conveyed. I think Dad has also been watching over Yua-san from a distance.

Please tell your father what you think

I read it.
Your precious father passed away and you are deeply sorry, aren't you? You think you wanted to talk more with your father. I don't know the details about you or your father, but I really understand your feelings.
And I pray with all my heart that Dad will be at ease from the bottom of my heart. We wholeheartedly agree

Your father worked so hard for everyone in the community, and was appreciated by many people and created a lot of futures. You were watching that figure, and they were very kind enough to snuggle up to you when you went to school. A lot of people really trusted my father, thanked him, and praised him.
Traces of your father's contribution in this way are probably still useful for everyone in the community. Also, my father has probably worked hard until now so that everyone can live every day with peace of mind, and so that everyone can grow healthily.

I'm sure your father will continue to gently watch over you, your family, and everyone in the community so that you can live a safe and healthy life, and he will continue to support Kagehinata from now on. And he will continue to pour out his deep love and mercy to all of you.

Please continue to put your hands together with your father and tell him your thoughts as they are. Your father always takes your thoughts kindly, is close to you and everyone, and guides everyone.

Your father's relationship with you and everyone will continue for a long time to come, and it will continue to grow deeper.

You and everyone will continue to cherish your father, and I sincerely pray to the Buddha, gods, ancestors, and father so that your father will gently watch over you and that everyone can live through each day healthily. We wholeheartedly agree

Don't let them die

There are people who don't die even if they die.
There is a way of life where you don't die even if you die.
The Buddha is probably like that.
This is probably the case with ancestors and great people who had a good way of life in Japan.
I don't think he's dead.
He must be a great father to you.
It would be strange to say dead dead.
You have to do that.
That's why you shouldn't let your father die.
Write that life is about living. There's no end to things.
I think it was certainly sad to say goodbye to my father.
I'm going to say something important.
I'll use an analogy to make it easier to understand.
You and your dad have 3 albums, which you and your father “still” share.
① One is an album about Dad's life itself.
② Another one is your own album.
And then there's another book.
③ It's an album between you and your dad.
It's an album we create together to make memories from our lives and walk together even after we pass away. This is an album that should be delivered to your father, even after he has passed away.
These three albums are in your head.
No one can take it away.
Who in the world would let go of their beloved daughter and die alone?
Humans have influence at the DNA level.
Even after death, parents continue to be congenital DNA in our children as acquired agents.
It's important to keep an eye on it and respect it.
Living people also have a lot of influence.
There is also the influence of those who have died.
There are tons of memories of albums between you and your dad.
You've already been entrusted with another album by your father.
Please write down today's sorrows first on that album and ask Dad to take a look at it.
Your father will surely teach you this.
I've been with you until today. They're dead even now, but that's the same for everyone. But don't worry.
I've already told you so many important ways to live. And my dad had my dad's life. You have your own life and are blessed with children.
Even if I say my father is dead, it's just that his body is gone. The life you spent with your father will continue from now on, so it's fine. 👼

Quiet, overflowing, thoughts came through.
He was a wonderful dad.
I presume/misestimate that it was difficult to write the title.

They are still trying to accept things that are difficult to accept and acknowledge.
I think that's amazing.

Maybe people around you will turn to the side of listening to the thoughts that people around you talk about your father, like your father, and you'll be able to ask someone close to you to listen to your thoughts about your father. It would be nice if that wasn't the case.

It would be nice if you don't overdo it, don't do your best, and feel that it's okay to be carefree at Yua's own pace.

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