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I was abused by someone I don't know

I'm always indebted to you.
There was something that shocked me, so let me talk to you about it.

When I was walking along the sidewalk, I passed by a middle-aged and elderly woman who came from the other side and said, “Get away! Ugly!” I was yelled at in a loud voice.

The road wasn't crowded at all, so I'm sure from my partner's point of view they said it because I was in the direction I wanted to go, but I'm surprised that there are people who go out of their way to say such a thing,

I've never been suddenly told such words by someone I don't know until now, so I'm quite shocked and disturbed.

I know it's best not to take those words, but I'm inevitably confused in terms of emotions.

At times like this, how can I calm my mind and return to a calm state?
I would appreciate your thoughts and advice.
Thank you for your support.

4 Zen Responses

Try that

Perhaps middle-aged and elderly women were told the same words by someone (or received malicious acts from someone), couldn't stand it, and wanted to hit it on someone else.
It's no different from the culprit of the recent indiscriminate killings that have occurred in quick succession.
What I say as a monk is ridiculous, but I'm the worst damn woman.
So what should you do?
Close the window in your room and take a full breath.
Then, while imagining that woman's face, she said, “You're ugly!” Try shouting out loud 10 times.
How is it, have you calmed down a bit?

There's nothing wrong with you. Remember the kind words addressed to you

That's terrible, isn't it? I was suddenly abused by others. It's an act of violence, right? It was scary, wasn't it?
Even if you try not to worry about it, the horror experience won't get out of your head, and I think it will be painful to revive even the other person's facial expressions and voices.

Go ahead, take a deep breath.
There's nothing wrong with you.
And remember the kind words addressed to you.
That's because those are the true words of thinking about you.

People do it for their own convenience regardless of whether the other party is you

Whether a person's cockroaches are good or bad is nothing but their own convenience.
Mr. A is having fun going back to Disneyland even if it's Mr. Gokigen
Mr. B gets tired from work and is Fukigen-san.
Everyone's mentality is different and varied.
I'm sure that old man was also in a state of max frustration due to work and family issues, his own circumstances, things that didn't go the way he wanted, etc., so he just got bogged down unintentionally.

It's the same as a car horn.
It looks like it's aimed at someone else, but hey! It's just making a sound like that.
It's just that the person himself honked his horn, and even if it's a word directed at someone, no matter how far you say it, they uttered that word for the person's own convenience, so you don't have to say it to the other person.
I also had a time when my car stopped at the pedestrian crossing because I couldn't turn right in time on my local road, and I was looked at at by pedestrians trying to cross the pedestrian crossing, and I felt really disgusted.
However, it was really a hindrance for pedestrians, so it can't be helped.
However, the malice of such people is something we should not accept.
°o°°°°F matrix
As an image, turn it around like a matrix and dodge it.
(#°°°) Move away! °o°°°°F matrix
(#°°°) Move away! , I'm beautiful...
(#°°°) hey hey! °o°°° (-” -;) why? ☚ passers-by
There are times when people who have nothing to do with horn or bad talk pick it up and think it's about themselves.
The word originally belonged to that person.
It doesn't belong to anyone.
It's something you don't have to accept.
(#°°°) Move away! ... I have bad eyes. it's a pity, oohoho ✨

In sumo wrestling, there is a word for “inasu,” and instead of favoring opponents who rush head-on, they sit (leave) outside the ring. eggplant. leave.
(-” -) ✋ DOSKOY! o... (;) 💦
In addition to the meaning of “making an opponent leave or return” from the spot, it also has the meaning of “dodging and treating” an opponent's attack or pursuit.
A ball that nobody picks up doesn't become catch.
Let's leave without leaving the one-way street. If that's bad ✋

Don't get involved in bad relationships

I read it.
You must be very hurt by being suddenly told such terrible things by an unknown person. I don't know the details, but I understand your feelings from the bottom of my heart.
I have had a similar experience. After all, there have been times when I was suddenly bombarded with rants by strangers. I was really angry and couldn't help it.
There are people in the world who are so rude. I think that's really stupid.
Such people are really stupid, they probably don't have enough time, or they are messy and hitting others. Unhappiness is probably swirling around in the hearts of such people.
It's just an assumption, but if no one were to repeat such foolish acts, it would be a big trouble, and since it would be a disability incident, it would cause more and more misfortune.
Therefore, it is desirable to stay firmly away from such stupid bad relationships. A bad relationship is to completely get rid of it and not get involved.
I sincerely pray that you will be able to live every day peacefully and with peace of mind without getting involved in such bad relationships at all. We wholeheartedly agree