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I regret it every day.

I'm currently in my 4th year as a nurse. Thinking about improving my skills, I changed my workplace this spring. However, I am busier than I had imagined, and every day I feel that this was not the right place for me, but my previous workplace. I've just entered, so I'm thinking of putting up with it for 1 or 2 years, but after that I'm thinking of going back to my previous hospital. However, in general, I don't think it's good to quit again after 3 years or less. I regret changing my workplace every day, and I would like to hear some kind words.

3 Zen Responses

What exactly is it that makes you disobey your true intentions

It is said that they changed their workplace to improve their skills.
Hanako-san is serious about her job as a nurse
I think we can work on it.

In the title of the question
“I regret it every day.”
Because there is
I feel a deep sense of anguish.

However, what is your conclusion for the time being
It looks like it's been put out.

Put up with it for 1 or 2 years
Quit your current job and go back to your previous job

However, quitting after 3 years or less is not good in the world in general

There's a conflict there.

What are you struggling with
I think something is going against my true intentions.

What exactly is it that makes you disobey your true intentions

You want to leave your current job as soon as possible
It's just that quitting too soon

Will the public generally lose their trust
People think they're people who can't keep up with their work

If you quit your workplace one after another
No matter what the truth is,
You might lose your credibility

Losing public trust
Are you acceptable
I don't think it's acceptable.

Based on that

Is my current workplace not right for me
I wonder if they'll let me grow
Why don't you think about it again?

Even if you change hospitals, hardships will change their shape

Hello Hanako-sama, my name is Akazawa from Ichimyoji.

I have had a similar experience. I thought my previous workplace was better. So I really understand Hanako-sama's feelings.

In my case, “it's not right for me!” As soon as I thought about it, I quit that job, but even when I went to my new workplace, I had a hard time with something else.

There is a rule in the world where everything is plus or minus zero.
In other words, the rule is that if you struggle with one thing, you won't struggle with one thing.

If I had stayed at my previous hospital, I wouldn't be suffering now.
But even if I stay at my previous hospital, my current hardships will take shape and come back.

There are hardships that people must shoulder.
I can only see the good points, and the hardships behind my back are hard to understand because I can't see them, but thanks to the hardships, I can honestly rejoice in small happiness.

Just as sour things ripen before you know it, apparently the taste of work matures over time!

Thank you very much for your consultation. I hope it will be a good place to work. Namu Myōhō Renge Kyō.

Also for patients

Hanako-sama

This is Kawaguchi Hidetoshi. This is a humble answer to the question.

Even though I'm exaggerating that it's not something I can overdo and put up with, I know. Rather than the appearance of quitting within 3 years, if you can change to an environment where you can make use of your skills as a nurse, or an environment where you can improve your skills, that will lead to truly being useful to patients, so I think it will be truly appreciated by those of us who use hospitals.

For example, in the midst of being left with regrets and being unable to put up with it at their current workplace to accumulate dissatisfaction and stress, it could be really disappointing if there were any negative effects on patients...

Please, not just Hanako's own problem, but I would be happy if Hanako, who is involved in the field of “life,” thought about it, and made a decision.

Also, regarding “regrets,” we have dealt with the following questions until now, so please refer to them.

http://blog.livedoor.jp/hasunoha_kawaguchi/archives/cat_318945.html

“... the past that has passed will never be recovered, but if you continue to be caught up in it, it won't change at all. I think the question is what we should do now and in the future. ・・”

The following is a humble answer about regrets at work.

Question “How should I recover from what I regret due to my mistakes”
http://blog.livedoor.jp/hasunoha_kawaguchi/archives/1003000100.html

Question “I'm looking for a job in a hurry and regret it.”
http://blog.livedoor.jp/hasunoha_kawaguchi/archives/1002843790.html

“... Above all else, I believe that whether or not it is a job that suits one's aspirations will be a major key to overcoming various difficulties in the future. ・・”

I pray for good deeds.

Kawaguchi Hidetoshi Gassho