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Is being stalked by an unknown man the current situation?
That's really scary! First, let's talk to the police.

Because of that experience, it's male phobia, isn't it? If it's someone you know or have a crush on, you feel safe, but you're wary of contact from other people.

Still, it means they want to be popular.
First, be aware of clean grooming and adjust your posture so that you can have confidence in yourself. That alone makes a good impression. The friendly expressions and careful language of communication are also well liked. Also, increase your appeal so that people want to talk more and meet more. People around you like people who have a wealth of special skills and knowledge, are motivated to do hobbies, and are attentive.

Also, if you feel a favor from someone you don't like, don't be vague and decline it properly. It's also a sincere way to deal with each other.

I read it.
You've become androphobic because you've been stalked or spoken ill of by men you don't know. And you want to be greeted by men, aren't you? I don't know the details about you, but I accept your feelings.

First of all, if you're having trouble being followed or spoken ill of by a man you don't know, talk to your local police station about it promptly and have them deal with it. Since stalking is an act of stalking, it is an illegal act, and it is also an act of violation of human rights to be spoken ill of. So let's ask the police to respond firmly to such people and prevent them. It's very important to keep yourself safe.

If you want to be nice, why don't you try being gentle and kind in your attitude and behavior when dealing with people. I think people feel a sense of closeness, security, and favor when treated with a smile. If you have more opportunities to treat yourself like that, naturally, the people you are dealing with will have a very good impression of you, and I think you will have a close relationship.

Also, please calm down and cultivate an eye for people. Don't forget to keep calm and observe your partner while showing a smile.
Don't forget that there are dangerous people and people who want to take advantage of you.

I sincerely pray that you can live every day with peace of mind without suffering such damage, that you can be blessed with wonderful encounters and relationships, deepen relationships with wonderful people, and live a rich and happy life from the bottom of your heart. Close to the Heart m (__) m

Being followed by a disgusting man made me feel bad. So it's unfortunate that they end up with androphobia. Boys want to protect girls they like. If you meet a man you really like, you'll be able to be kind to him. Then, that man will treat you kindly in order to protect you. And by having that man be kind to you, you will be able to regain your true self.
Don't shut yourself off just because you don't like it.
You can treat others kindly, and when that person is healed by you, you will realize that you are being healed yourself.

Use yourself to help others or people other than yourself.
By doing so, you yourself will be healed.

　

Thank you for your question.

Even though it's a phobia
I really want to give it to men.

Why is that?

Do you want to improve yourself?

Why do you want to be popular?

I was worried about things like the foundation.

Gassho