What does believing in people mean

Nice to meet you. It's called the monk's hearing method.
Worrying about “not being able to trust people” is proof that you are trying to face others with such sincerity. You never have to blame yourself.

From a Buddhist point of view, believing is not “fixing the other person according to one's own ideals.” The reason we feel that behavior that does not meet expectations is “betrayal” is because we unknowingly seek the other person's obsession that “it should be like this.”

First, let's accept the truth (impermanent conduct) that “people are uncertain beings that change and change.”

Instead of believing “this person doesn't lie,” hope “I want to be myself who can accept it even if I'm betrayed or my expectations are disappointed.” This is what “believing” really means.

Believing isn't about controlling someone; it's about deciding your own intentions. First, let's take good care of our doubting self, saying “you're trying to protect yourself,” and little by little, develop yourself without fear of consequences.

Also, there is no need to force yourself to “believe.” As a human being, we all have the mentality of “unbelievable.” It's also a defensive instinct to be careful not to be fooled. Once there is room in your mind, the feeling of “not being able to believe” will naturally fade.

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I read it.
You can't trust people from the bottom of your heart, can you? I don't know the details about you or the people around you, but I accept your thoughts from the bottom of my heart.
I think it's true that you can't trust people as easily as you said. There is a lot of lies, fake news, and misinformation in this world, and there are also scams and thieves. Therefore, believing people at first sight is rather risky. Deciding whether you can believe is also very important in order to live in this world.
So how can you make people believe in people, but after all, I think the ability to see through lies and truth will become very important.
Look closely at people's eyes and posture when they're talking. There are times when people talk about fraudsters as if they are true or factual, but let's take a close look at that person's eyes and watch for trends to see if it's a lie.
If you take a close look at that person's eyes, your eyes move a lot when that person is lying, your eyes move a lot, your eyes deceive your opponent, and your eyes are overbearing.
And it's also very important to check what that person is talking about in a different form later. Such checks can be made over and over again.

It's about whether or not you can trust the other person based on that. Also, please try not to say anything about it yourself, tell the truth and treat people sincerely.
I sincerely pray that you will be blessed with truly wonderful encounters and relationships in the future, that you will be able to speak the truth without lying, and that you can sincerely trust and help each other live a rich and healthy life. We wholeheartedly agree

I think it's a good idea to look at what that person has done up until now and decide whether to believe it or not. It's safe to say that you still don't trust someone you've met for the first time. Try not to blindly immediately believe just words, looks, or titles.

Don't expect too much from your partner.

Of course, I believe in people I have relationships with, but this is my one-sided feeling, and I believe it because “I want to believe.”

That wasn't the case from the first time we met. This is because I felt from my partner that they had such a good personality that I thought they wanted to believe in while getting involved.
I'm sure they're only looking at a part of their partner, but even so, they're wonderful people, and it's precisely because they think they respect them that I “want to believe in them.”

I am grateful for such an encounter, and I would like to build a good relationship with my partner.

It's a question about how to be able to believe, but not just put expectations on it, but also become a person that others can trust you. If we do that, we will both be important to each other, and I wonder if you will be able to truly believe in them.