Is there divine punishment?
I have something to worry about. It's about my husband's father-in-law.
My parents-in-law are divorced, and my husband followed my mother-in-law when I was a kid. I have a younger brother with a severe disability, and my husband seems to have taken the place of his father. Even though he's still a kid, he has to take care of his younger brother, so it seems that he has put up with it in his own way, but the person himself takes that for granted.
I grew up in a very ordinary family, and when I heard that story, I thought it must have gone through more hardships than I could have imagined. Aren't you putting up with your husband who talks about it so bluntly that it has become commonplace? It makes me think.
My father-in-law was almost never at home even when we were living together, and it seems like he didn't pay child support even after the divorce. We got married, had children, built a house, and my husband is responsible for our future lives. My father-in-law shouts his head each time and treats me as my husband's father. We are related by blood, so of course, but after I met my father-in-law, I was really confused. Why didn't I let my husband be more like a child, made him just struggle, just put up with it, why did he become a father. It's also infuriating.
So what I'm worried about is, if my father-in-law dies like this, isn't there anything like divine punishment somewhere? Is it right for my husband to cut it off if he lives that kind of life? Or is the world rather like that, and I think too much?
