I can't stand being at home
Thank you for taking the time to read it.
First, please forgive me for writing a poor sentence.
I've been living with my family, and it has become mentally painful.
Now, I'll explain how that happened.
First, we'll talk about family structure and job type.
I will be the mother, eldest son, second son, and servant of the youngest son.
Of these, my mother is a temporary employee, and I am a full-time employee.
I don't know the details of my two older brothers, but I think they probably work on a temporary basis or something. But I've almost never seen them leave their homes.
Next, let's talk about why I became in pain.
I'm a high school graduate and have been working for about 5 years, and after I got a job, I made a promise with my mother to “do cooking and laundry instead of offering half of my salary.”
Basically, it's a form of depositing your own bank credit card with your mother and having them withdraw half of your salary. Also, I remember that my salary was around 200,000 yen, and my rent was certainly around 80,000 yen.
It's been about 3 years since I got a job, and the exchange continued as it was,
When I was checking my deposit balance on the app from about 2 years ago, apparently almost the entire amount of my salary was withdrawn.
I'm wondering if I should ask my mother, but this person has a slightly difficult personality,
When I answer even a little bit, they have tantrums and say, “Shut up!” They shout at me like “Yes,” and deny their personality.
Gradually, it also hits things.
Even if I ask questions in this state right now, I think they'll cut ties, so I'm thinking of personally asking banks directly or searching for sites with solutions to such cases.
For the time being, I still have over 1 million yen in my account and I'm thinking about living alone, but when I tell my mother about it, they try to tie me down by saying, “Don't try to run away alone because my two older brothers don't work.”
It's already full, and I don't know where to start.
Maybe it's okay to talk to a lawyer to see if it can really be investigated.
This kind of hesitation and wigs have piled up a lot, so I wanted to talk to the monks.
I would be grateful if you could give me a specialized answer or something,
Even if this is not the case, it would be very helpful if you could answer some hints for your own actions, things that can be a path, and words that give you the courage to make a decision to act.
Excuse me for the random and long sentences.
Thank you for your support.