Parent trouble in club activities

Club activities are activities for children, and I don't think parents have anything to do with it.
Club activities in the midst of various family circumstances. Of course everyone can't do the same thing. Since it's a school, there are all kinds of people, so it's okay if there is a temperature difference.

Those who have conveyed their dissatisfaction are truly a mass of misfortune.
You don't need to accept that misfortune.

I think it's a matter of talking to the school first. I want to continue my club activities, but I wonder what I should do.
If Nana doesn't need to go, maybe get her to acknowledge it.

I'll say goodbye to people who impose those values after graduation, so I don't know how many more times I'll meet, but if it's only a few more times, I wonder if it's possible to get away with it.

Since it has been solved, adults will keep watching. That is support from a parent's point of view, isn't it? However, my partner's parents didn't seem to calm down.

Since there are parents like this, it seems difficult to socialize with parents in children's club activities.

Troubles between children are frustrating even when adults look at them, but that's how children grow. Even though it was solved, my parents made it a little complicated again, so I wonder what they plan to do.

It hurts, doesn't it? Then there is a point here too. However, I think you were able to endure it a long time. You've been very patient.

I don't want to meet face to face. I don't even want to go. Yes, that's right. The other side probably feels that way too. That's why don't you warmly watch over and support only your child in a dignified manner while erasing the other person's presence?

I'm sure it will be difficult for children to feel the other person's parent's gaze. I want to protect them, right? A parent's strength is not cursing their partner. Trust your child at all times and stand by them. Therefore, you should erase the other person's parent's presence from within you. I hope parents and children can enjoy club activities.

I read it.
I see, you and your parents had a different amount of energy, which caused trouble. I don't know the details about you and that person, but I feel like I understand that you're worried about what to do. I understand your feelings from the bottom of my heart.
I think their way of life and way of thinking about raising children is different from that person. Since they're different, I think it's natural that they don't agree and that their attitudes and actions don't match. Why don't you try talking to your club activity teachers and leaders about it and get their understanding. They will probably continue to fight directly from now on, so let's ask teachers and mentors to act as intermediaries.
That's because club activities are just part of raising children. It was a period of time. Eventually, I'll walk away from that person. So let's calm down without getting too emotional, keep a reasonable distance, and respond calmly.
I sincerely pray that you and everyone will gently watch over and raise your children and that they will grow up healthily. Close to the Heart m (__) m

Since the home environment and number of children are different, I think it is unavoidable that there will be differences in the amount of energy and content that can be put into parents' club activities.
It's a life where you can only do what you can do anyway, so let's think it's OK if you do what you can.
So, the other person's anger is just the other person's “personal impression,” so there's no need to worry about it.
Expressing what you want to say to each other is a form of communication, so don't delay and treat each other normally as before.
I think your child will feel at ease by dealing with adults who show you can afford it, and there is a possibility that people around you will take your side.