What do you want to know about your past lives? Did they ask about past lives, etc. with the intention of using the present as a hint for living in the present?
In the first place, for people living in the present day, previous lives have nothing to do with it, and it has no effect on the present. The way we live in this world will change, whether we think it was given or whether we understand it as something unrelated.
If you are a person who has tremendous power to see past lives, no matter how you feel, it will be “your previous life.” Now that I've heard it, I'm either accepting it, or I'm just convinced, “I am who I am now.”
However, in order to live in the times, I think truths other than those facts are hidden. If it's your previous life, please let me think that far. with your spiritual powers.
Postscript...
There is a problem with being able to see your previous life and then conveying information about your previous life even though your partner (you) isn't looking for it.
I am involved in consultation work on a daily basis, but even in a close relationship, I do not disclose information that only I know if the client does not want it, and it is not time for consultation (in progress).
Everyone (the monk) will think that the fact that you learned from your question is that you heard it yourself. No way, I don't think I told you about my past life without permission even though I hadn't heard it.
What we can see from this incident is whether an acquaintance who can see spirits is someone you can really trust. Anyone would be confused if they heard about past lives, etc. They say such things easily even though they haven't even been asked, making them feel confused or uneasy.
Even people with amazing powers confuse you and can't follow you. In the end, you are supposed to rely on another consultation (Hasunoha).
“This kind of thing happens quite often. I'm calling attention, but they're not responding”
I doubt humanity. As someone who deals with spiritual vision, you may derail your partner's life. I think this is an issue to be handled very carefully.
It would be better to think carefully about relationships with people who are causing you pain, including future relationships.