I can't accept the number of people she's dating

I'm not going to talk about past relationships or the number of people, though...
Honestly, I mean I haven't thought about anything...
I wonder if they don't think about what kind of impression they will have on their partner (you). Assuming that it's fine to get to know someone on an app, dating for the time being would probably lack prudence in terms of age. That's where she's in danger, isn't she?

The pill is a contraceptive, so if used well, it has a high contraceptive effect, but it also has side effects and is a burden on the body. Also, they are prescribed at hospitals. It also has benefits for women's health management, such as relieving menstrual pain (dysmenorrhea) and PMS (premenstrual syndrome), and improving anemia. This means that it is also conceivable that there may be anxiety about hormonal balance or health.

If it's a romantic relationship, I think it would be nice if you could have a good time when you want to meet, but if you're thinking about the future, I think it would be nice if you could take a deeper look.

Thank you very much for your consultation. Even if my head knows “I should look at my current girlfriend,” my heart will inevitably reject her. The pain of being torn apart, and the conflict that comes from caring for her will be painfully conveyed.

From a monk's point of view, I dare to be strict and candid.

Buddhism explains that all suffering comes from “obsession” and “ignorance (ignorance)” of not being able to see things as they are.
The reason you are suffering now is not the “girlfriend who loves you” right in front of you, but because you are fighting an illusion called “her past image” in your brain.

However, since she “tried dating for the time being,” the men she once chose, and the feeling that she judged her method of contraception as “shallow and disgusting,” I have to say that there is a shortage of “vessels” that surround everything about her within you at the moment. This is not right or wrong; it's a matter of “skill” or compatibility.

After going through all her doubts and experiences in the past, she has now arrived at your “terminal station” and is devoting herself both body and soul. Her confession is proof of her absolute trust in you. If that is “unacceptable,” I can see a future where I doubt her and hurt her by going back through the past.

If you're not prepared to accept it, the greatest form of mercy (kindness) is to stop being spoiled by her affection and to step back in order not to waste any more time with each other.

If you still don't want to break up, decide to 100% affirm her past, saying “it was a necessary process that shaped the wonderful girlfriend she is now.” A half-hearted compromise will only make both of you unhappy.

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I read it.
I see, I read what you're worried about. I feel like I can also understand that you would think that. I understand your feelings from the bottom of my heart.
I think what you've heard has stuck deeply in your heart. If you keep obsessing about that, you'll find it hard for yourself.
If you were in a completely different situation, your point of view and way of thinking would change, and you might feel overwhelmed without getting caught up.
That may depend on the circumstances and you.
Please take your time and look back at yourself.
I sincerely pray that you and that person will be able to live a life respecting each other and sharing compassion and happiness with your loved ones. We wholeheartedly agree

I saw your consultation, Sarashina.

I understand very well that Sarashina is seriously thinking about whether to take her as her wife as her partner in her second life from now on.

Also, to be honest, I don't think that's a bad thing for me when it comes to the fact that she said about the number of people she has experienced in the past.

This is because if you're a normal woman, there's a high possibility that they won't say how many people

I think it depends on their personality how they felt when they said that number of people, but I think there are people who think that spitting out everything that has been washed out is sincere.

However, if Sarashina says she can't stand that number of people as of now, I can't help but say that this wasn't originally compatible.

Matching apps etc. are also often used everyday, and it seems that both men and women decide to go out with each other after checking their physical compatibility.

Information that there are people like that should be included.

I think the number one problem is in Sarashina's mind.

If you want to continue to be in a relationship even with such an open girlfriend, I think it would be okay if we continued to be in a relationship.

However, when something happens in the relationship between the two of them in the future, I want you to never say that you are a woman with only a large number of past lovers, so you should have broken up at that time.

You should decide at your own risk whether you can accept her or not.

Also, it's nonsense for men to insistently ask about past relationships, and women hate it the most.

Now that you know all that, please keep an eye on the fact that there is no trial where the relationship between the two went well.

Men and women don't think with their heads; they just have compatibility and instincts; they just want to be with this person no matter what.
If it were for this person, I could put up with it and forgive him.

I think that's the kind of place, so if you instinctively stopped, you might not be the person you were destined to do, and I think I have no choice but to ask my heart about that.

When they say they don't feel comfortable or tell me how to break up, I wonder if it's already different.

I feel like I'm not prepared.

Please think about it carefully.