I think my husband is bad friends too.

I don't know the details, but I think my husband is to blame. Husbands like that also exist, don't they? Let's leave the money to a lawyer. It would be nice if you could claim marriage expenses, do divorce mediation at the same time, settle marriage expenses when the divorce is finalized, break up once and for all, and start a new life. My husband probably had that kind of personality even before they got married. Or maybe it changed after giving birth. Relationships are difficult, aren't they?

As far as I can tell you, your husband's words and actions are very serious.

While you have children, it would be extremely difficult to realistically maintain a life with those living expenses.

It is said that they have already been requested by a lawyer teacher, so please trust the teacher and leave the legal response to them. Furthermore, the most important thing you can do now is “leave evidence.”

Instead of emotional exchanges, let's organize abuses, violence, living expenses payment status, circumstances leading up to separation, etc. with the date and time as much as possible. They are important materials in mediation and adjudication.

Also, if your husband has circumstances where another issue, such as infidelity, is suspected, there is room to consider an investigation after consulting with a lawyer. However, it is expensive, and evidence cannot always be obtained, so careful judgment is necessary.

It can also be seen that the husband is trying to proceed with the divorce in a form favorable to him due to your illness or “personality mismatch.” That's why objective evidence is more important than anything else.

I can also understand the feeling of thinking “it was a bad relationship.” However, the most important thing right now is not to rush that evaluation.

The first thing to do is protect your child and your own life.

After overcoming this difficult period, there is always a path to building a new life. Please don't take it alone and move forward one step at a time while receiving support from lawyers and those around you.

I read it. I also reread my previous question.
You think your husband is a bad friend, don't you? Also, the divorce is being mediated, isn't it? I don't know the details about you, your husband, your children, or your family, but it tells me that you have had a very hard time until now. I understand your feelings from the bottom of my heart.
Seen from the sentences this time, too, what Momo's husband is doing is clear DV, it's a misconduct, and it's a criminal act. Both you and your child have been told very terrible things every day and shown acts of violence, and they have been abusive without handing over money securely, and I think they are still happening now.
So, as you said, my husband's relationship is a bad relationship, and I think my husband continues to do misdeeds.
Please tell your husband through an attorney to acknowledge the mistake, apologize, make him pay compensation, and pay child support etc. for the child to grow up. Don't say it directly to your husband yourself; ask a fair lawyer or judge to tell you clearly.
What your husband did to you is a terrible crime. The husband must be paid for his sins. Also, let's get advice and support from many people so that you and your child can live with peace of mind.
Please actively receive support by consulting with local government child and family support centers and child counseling centers regarding raising children.
I sincerely pray that you and your child will be supported and helped by many people and can live every day with peace of mind without suffering disaster from your husband, and that your child will be protected by many people and that your child will grow healthily.
And my husband sincerely repented and sincerely apologized to you and your children, and sincerely prayed that such malice, insults, and misdeeds would stop. We wholeheartedly agree

You've always been receiving DV, haven't you? I've hurt and controlled the partner I've met and married with violence. No matter what the reason was, it was my husband who turned the relationship into a violent bad relationship.

It's really frustrating and unforgivable.
That's because you have an attorney with you. The mediator also properly listens to the arguments. Let's rely on it firmly.

The symptoms of depression may also make you feel backward, but don't forget that you have allies. Both Hasunoha and the Buddha are on your side.