I'm in my second year of high school. Recently, I've taken it for granted that I have to be thankful. The other day, I made a gaffe to return the favor to a loved one.
Also, I've realized that I'm only finding bad things about people, and I want to fix this bad habit.
I'm interested in Buddhism, so could you tell me how this kind of thing is explained or how it is commanded in Buddhism?
Hello.
My name is Hirofumi (Kobun).
I think it's important to be grateful.
However, what is a person's heart
Apparently it's not just about doing it to someone else
Towards what I want to be
Even when I'm doing what I can
A sense of gratitude seems to sprout.
And I think this is also important.
At a wake at a funeral, etc.
Mourners often talk about how to do funerals
“I want to do it like this. What do you think?”
“You can't do it this way. Can we at least do it this way?”
That's why they ask.
I'm not going to take everything
“If that's the case, you can do it.”
or, “Please do that.” Speaking of which,
“Thank you.” It doesn't matter, it comes back.
Something that person values.
This is something you want to keep doing.
Each and every one of them
If someone says, “It's fine, go ahead”
Aren't you happy?
It is also an expression of gratitude to someone who has done something
Of course I think it's important.
But after all, every day,
Feel, think for yourself, and act.
Therein lies the joy.
Please be proud and win that joy for yourself.
I think a sense of gratitude comes naturally.
It won't be easy.
Even if you think you're doing what you want to do or what you think is important,
There are times when a sense of gratitude doesn't develop.
I'm sure that's not what I really wanted.
Still, I never gave up, and always for myself and someone else
What's important? What is desirable
Keep looking.
I would appreciate it if you could use it as a reference.
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I read it.
You think it's very important to be grateful in your everyday life. It's very important for you to think like that, and if you start appreciating everything around you every day, your life will be very rich.
If you live every day with gratitude and a smile, you will surely be able to live a happy life, and the people around you will surely be happy.
There is also the term “Japanese face love language.” Please try to keep it in mind in your daily life.
It is by no means a matter of course that you are alive right now. You were miraculously born in a very strange encounter, loved by many people and given many blessings, and you live every day. You are being kept alive every day without taking a break. You can live and grow in lots of loving relationships.
Please be thankful for so many relationships and all of your blessings.
I sincerely pray that you will be grateful for everything in the future and that you will continue to grow healthily, that you will sincerely cherish each other, share your happiness from the bottom of your heart, and live through life.
And I will support you from the bottom of my heart.
In Buddhism, it's important to look at yourself. By looking closely at whatever kind of self you are, even if it's a form of self you don't want to look at, you will be grateful for the presence of the Buddha, who has your own weaknesses and foolishness, yet continues to hope that you will not abandon them, and you will come to think that you want to change your way of life.
You've sworn that you want to be grateful while properly reflecting on yourself for not being able to do it. That's a great thing.
In that way, I want to remember watching my actions one by one.
Also, if you think it was a gaffe, let's gather the courage to apologize. By looking back on your own actions, you can grow again. Seeing myself is an important reminder, isn't it?