I was suddenly kept at a distance from someone important to me.
There is someone I've become really good friends with at work in the past six months. I was transferred, but we continued to be good friends even after that.
We kept in touch every day, met regularly, and even talked about our problems with each other. People I like this are rare, and I wanted to be good friends for a long time.
However, from the day after one day when close members, including me and my partner, got together, they suddenly stopped getting in touch, and even when I contacted them from here, there was an unexpected response. When I ask if something happened, they say it's nothing, and even when I ask if they've done something, they say that's not the case and they worry too much. I also thought it was simply busy, but after that, I was informed that the schedule I had promised from 1 month ago was suddenly canceled 2 days ago, saying “it became difficult,” and I couldn't make plans right away after that, and I was very shocked and said, “Absolutely something happened, right? I'll spend time alone for now, but... Even though I sent something like “I'm waiting,” 11 days passed unread through.
It hasn't been blocked, and the SNS I was only connected to my closest friends, including me, hasn't been cut off, but I don't know what they mean.
I'm sorry for my own circumstances, but it was very painful, I couldn't sleep, and the food didn't go through my throat. However, I also have recently been recovering, and I think that is unforgiving.
Chasing after being unread is also annoying, and they may be ignored.
If you don't like me after doing something, I want to apologize, and if I can, I want to be good friends again. My partner is someone who lives a very difficult life, so I want to help if there are any circumstances.
He was the first person to say that he respected me, so maybe he unknowingly did something that made me disillusioned and missed it.
I think I'll have no choice but to try contacting them again after some time, but I don't know how much time I should free up.
Even if you talk to a friend, “if you're confused, you should listen,” “you should wait,” “didn't you do something that the other person didn't like?” etc. are scattered and I don't understand.
I know I can't get an answer when I listen to it, but in the end, I think that trying to work on someone is intrusive, and I just keep wondering when I should contact them again or not anymore.
If you're being kept at a distance, is it compassion for the other person to accept it?
