How to keep an eye on

Have you been examined at a medical institution?
I don't know the details of poor physical condition, but I think there is a possibility of poor brain and nerve condition such as “depression.”
Mental health disorders are also physical disorders after all, so physical (hard) treatments and countermeasures are effective, and there is a possibility that they have exceeded the level that can be improved with soft aspects, sermons from parents, etc.
For example, “do warm up before exercising so as not to get injured” is soft advice.
But no matter how much you preach to someone who's already been hurt, physical damage won't heal right away.
There is a possibility that it will get worse even if you force someone with a tight back to carry heavy luggage.
Mental health disorders are “tight brain and lower back,” in other words, physical physical disorders, so physical physical treatment and prevention methods may be necessary.
The fact that monks recite sutras and nembutsu while hitting wooden fish etc. is actually a rhythmic exercise for the brain, so it also has physical and physical effects that regulate serotonin nerves and prevent “depression.”
For example, walking and jogging are good, and it seems good to be moderately exposed to sunlight to produce vitamin D.
So, why don't you watch over your daughter thinking she's someone with a broken bone or a tight back, thinking that she won't be able to run or carry heavy luggage like when she was healthy without physical physical treatment first.

The fact that I told my husband “I don't want you to say harsh things” was a really wise and correct decision as a mother. The young lady didn't fall into the current situation because she liked it; she struggled and suffered the most from her helpless self. If your husband had reprimanded him, the condition would have worsened even more.

Being aware that “watching without saying anything is surprisingly difficult” is a major first step in deepening monitoring. In Buddhism, there is a teaching of “mercy,” where people accept themselves as they are without imposing expectations or one's own ideals on others. The kindness that “this is better” has also become an “obsession” for today's young lady that is a burden on her heart.

Now that they are on leave of absence, the top priority is to follow the instructions of the attending physician and concentrate on medical treatment. Please refrain from conversations reminiscent of “work” at home as much as possible and create a safe and secure place where they can rest without thinking about anything. Forgetting about work and being able to rest your mind and body is the first step towards recovery.

Also, even if your physical condition is getting better, never rush back to work. There is also a risk that it will get worse if you overdo it, and there is also a possibility that your current workplace and allowances did not suit your daughter in the first place.

Try trusting the young lady's own “pace of life” and entrusting it to her, as if you were waiting for flower buds to open naturally. Simply staying close to it warmly should be the best medicine of all. Please take care of your heart as well.

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Engiji Temple Shakujo

I read it.
Your daughter got sick, took a leave of absence, and came home to recuperate. You're very worried about your daughter and want to keep an eye on her. And you told your husband not to be harsh. I don't know the details about your daughter, you, or your husband, but I feel like I understand your feelings very well. I understand your feelings from the bottom of my heart.

My husband is probably someone who always demands what he thinks is right from himself and the people around him. I probably grew up being told that way since my daughter was young, so as a daughter, I think she blamed herself because she thought it was her fault.

My daughter won't be bad at all, and I think she did her best. First of all, please praise such a girl and treat her kindly. Please take good care of them and heal them. Your daughter may be very hurt, so if possible, please get diagnosed by a doctor and get proper treatment or recuperation.
I'm sure your daughter will recover, and with the protection and support of you and many other people, she will rest easy both mentally and physically, and slowly heal her mind and body.
And I'm sure I'll be moving towards my daughter's future again.
What my daughter has experienced is by no means a waste; she will continue to grow through various experiences.

I sincerely pray that your daughter will continue to recover while being gently watched over and supported by you, her husband, and many other people, that she will face her future from now on, be blessed with many wonderful encounters, grow healthily, and live a truly rich and fulfilling life together with all of you.
And I will be supporting my daughter from the bottom of my heart. We wholeheartedly agree

My husband's DV is also a problem, isn't it? In the first place, there are differences in husbands in their times and values, so I don't want you or your daughter to have opinions as if they were “right.”

My daughter is already an adult too. Based on this experience, you will still be able to explore and choose an environment that suits you.
The pace was just disrupted by major environmental changes and hard work, and now I want them to slowly recuperate.

Wouldn't it be better to recuperate in an environment where you live alone? I wonder if you go over there. I think it would be better for both of you to stay away from your husband for a while.

・Consultation desk for women with difficult issues (Women's Counseling Support Center)
(Women's Counseling Support Center Nationwide Dial #8778（はなそう Nayami)

・"Your Mikata” Ministry of Rehabilitation, Labor and Welfare website
https://anata-no-mikata.mhlw.go.jp/

There is also a consultation desk. I also discussed work, the environment, and DV from my husband.
That's because it's a place to talk to both your daughter and you. Please rely on it.

I apologize on behalf of the male.
I'm sorry that men and men are so troublesome and difficult to handle.
For now, buy a book that seems like men can be manipulated in 3 words, and skillfully control and tame male creatures from a public standpoint.
Every man in this world can troll with a woman's benevolence and goodness.

The only way to come to a good conclusion is that unnecessary collisions, differences, misunderstandings, and dents occur along the way.
The important thing is that your daughter will be a 👹 Oni Musume 👹 who “no matter what happens” even if you and your wife pass away one day.
Please come to the Toyama Zazen Festival with your parents and children to create a heart that wants to improve their ambition, sense of mind, and heart. why is that? After all, my true partner in life other than my own heart is from Ariehen.
If you're a secretary who can't use your mind, a bad manager, a butler who doesn't work, an AI that gives bad answers, or a rude answering monk like this guy, then life won't be a problem. why? why is that?
Every time something happens to my heart! This is because they react less than Ostrich Club and get carried away.
Each person's mental reaction depends on that person. But I can change it. Above all, if the mental reaction becomes strong, people will never get hurt. They become positive with ambition, dodge even the good-natured reaction of the husband who has a bad reaction with Ina Bauer like the Matrix, and the monosugy tough Nice Good Wife Reaction ✨ Nice Well Made Daughter Reaction is triggered, so even if the father is DV's father, you can even screw him up like Saori Yoshida.
“Yes, learn martial arts”

It's also important to get stronger, but above all else, if my mind doesn't react negatively every time something happens, I'm the best. It's okay if it's sticky. Like Dave Spector, there is also a reaction art path that specializes in Suveli.
Now, what is this guy saying?
The point is that you, your daughter, and Oto-chan will be “OK,” “TOUGH,” and “Choray” no matter what happens. You can zazen and install a gold medal table tennis player in your mind so that you can move in a bright direction no matter what happens, in a direction that doesn't dent. Table tennis players only have reactions that go back to any violent throw in their lives and win, so everything is crazy 🏓