What is the value of oneself that makes no one special.

If you go in a different direction, it's natural that you won't be able to meet

I have read your consultation.

From the text, I felt that he was a very serious and sincere person.

First, let's check,

I've confessed, but we've never gone out with each other.

Is that what you're talking about?

If so, I don't think it's that serious.

There is a word called “mismatch” in the world.

You've been looking for a lover, and hopefully a partner for life.

However, their partner hadn't thought about getting married yet, and their values and life plans were different.

In other words, maybe they were just heading in a different direction.

Love doesn't come from effort alone.

This is because no matter how sincere you are, you can't even change the other person's feelings.

However, there is no need to conclude that “I am unattractive.”

From now on, why don't you make an effort to meet people who are facing the same direction from the beginning?

If you are in your late 30s and want to get married, there are plenty of options called marriage agencies.

Many people who come there have a common purpose of “I want to get married.”

Since the starting line is the same, it's easier to match each other's feelings.

Life is a relationship.

Even if things don't go well with dozens of people, if you can meet one person, that's enough.

Please don't just determine your life based on past results.

What you have done up until now to gather your courage and express your feelings is by no means in vain.

I would like you to use that courage for your next relationship.

Don't be impatient.

Take good care of your relationships.

Life is yet to come.

Gassho

It seems that there are countless young men and women in the world who live alone who have the same feelings as you.
Please don't worry about this.
I have a hobby I love, my work is rewarding, and it's great to have friends.
However, if you have a partner to go through life with, your life will be even more wonderful.
It is said that until now they have conveyed their thoughts when the woman they are interested in shows up, but what kind of encounter was that woman?
You won't know your appeal as a person until you've been in a relationship for a long time.
Your appeal is the same as your partner's appeal.
If it means you've never been in a relationship with anyone before, start dating someone first.
Start by inviting a woman you meet face to face at work, a woman you meet on your way to work, or a woman you met on a matching app.
At first, it would be good to just eat.
It doesn't matter if you fall in love with it or not after that.
Again, I'm sure there are plenty of women around you who have the same thoughts as you.
Finally, a word from a Buddhist perspective.
You seem to be concerned that you are not special to anyone, but no one can be someone special.
Remember that you are special to yourself.

I read it.
I read your thoughts. I accept your thoughts wholeheartedly.
You probably feel that way, but you are still a very precious and irreplaceable person. You may not be in a relationship with right now, but the fact that you are an important person will not change for a long time.
It may not be easy to accept it that way. You may be worried that you are an unnecessary person or a person without value, but the fact that you are precious and important will not change from now on.
A lot of people care about you. The Buddha, gods, and ancestors take care of you from the bottom of their heart and are always watching over you.
Please live the future with confidence in yourself.
I sincerely pray to the Buddha, gods, and ancestors that you will continue to be cherished by many people and that you will be able to live every day healthily by being blessed with wonderful encounters and relationships from now on, and that you will be blessed with wonderful encounters and relationships from now on.
And I wholeheartedly support you. We wholeheartedly agree

Where and what is your lover doing right now?
It's hard to meet someone I fall in love with, and even if I do, I don't have feelings for them.
You're looking for someone, and you want to be someone special.

There is a song called “To You Haven't Seen You Yet” by Makihara Takayuki that I love.
A love song with a positive protagonist who works hard every day while thinking about Kimi I haven't seen yet, and “I just want to say I was born to meet you.” I was so encouraged when I came across this song (I just haven't met him yet, I wonder if my future lover will be waiting for me like this). When I think so, I think I'll do my best even with everyday casual things. It's a song I still miss and love. Please listen to it.

You should be able to meet your special someone somewhere. That's why you're important.