It's Hard to Watch My Mother Suffer

Everything is painful. As long as I'm alive, I have some kind of suffering every second of every day, and dealing with that suffering (homework).
Homework won't go away. It's just that the shape of the homework changes moment by moment.
So you can go as usual.
If you do what you can now to the extent you can, you will have a successful life.
The task of making a phone call (holding the phone in your hand and moving your mouth) is the same whether you are calling a dealer in response to a traffic accident or calling another person for other errands.
The work details of running within the legal speed are the same for taxis heading to the wedding hall and taxis heading to the funeral home.
In other words, even if it's the biggest event in your life, when you break it down into physical tasks in seconds, there isn't much difference in what you do.
What makes the mind exhausted is that the mind is speeding.
All you have to do is tackle the homework in front of you one by one to the extent physically (physical) possible.
I don't mind if I make a mistake.
If you fall, all you have to do is get up.
Falling is homework, and getting up is homework.
Actually, homework in seconds is a simple task such as falling properly and getting up properly, so I think you should do it to the extent you can do it every time.
If you calm down like that and do as usual, I think it will also lead to reassuring and helping your mother.
As usual = I have room in my mind (my mind is not speeding).

I would like to express my sympathy for your mother's rib fracture.

While I am the chief priest, I also run an osteopathic clinic.

Rib fractures are by no means uncommon. In addition to falling, broken bones can also occur due to coughing, sneezing, golf swings, etc.

It hurts more than anything else.

Even if you just move your body a little, the pain runs through, and you may feel difficult to breathe or even roll over. Therefore, it is no wonder that the mother is losing her energy.

If a supporter, chest band, or pain reliever is prescribed by the hospital, it is important to follow the instructions and stay at rest above all else.
If there doesn't seem to be anything to fix it, it's a method that has been used for a long time, but even if you just tear the sunburn in half and lightly wrap your chest, pain caused by movement may be relieved.

Also, when it comes to cars, please don't blame yourself too much.

The fact that I was worried about my mother and not being able to calm down may also have had an effect.

Actually, last year, during the period when my mother was bedridden and in a serious state, I flashily hit a car once in the parking lot of the facility and again at home less than a month later.

That had never happened before, so I was surprised.

When you're feeling nervous, you may make mistakes that you wouldn't normally think of.

If the car is repaired, it will return to normal.

But isn't it harder for a mother to watch you keep blaming yourself?

Parents feel more secure than anything else when their children smile.

Please smile and say “It's okay, it will definitely get better” in front of your mother.

That you're by my side and that you snuggle up gently. I think that will be the greatest support for my mother right now.

Please don't blame yourself too much.

I read it.
Your mom isn't feeling well because she's injured, and you're very worried, aren't you? Meanwhile, you feel really sorry for causing an accident and putting a burden on your mother. You've made your mother have such a hard time, and you're worried about what to do. I don't know the details about you or your mother, but I understand your painful feelings from the bottom of my heart.

How is your mother's injury? Please take good care of them.
I sincerely pray that your mother will recover from her injury as soon as possible and that she will be well.
Also, please take care of yourself and take a good rest. Your mind and body are probably very exhausted, so please get a good night's sleep and let them rest both mentally and physically. And I hope you recover with your mother.
I'm sure both your mom and you will recover. And we can live together forever from now on.

I sincerely pray that both your mother and you will be well healed and recovered, that you will continue to cherish and care for each other, and that you will be able to live a healthy and fulfilling life every day. We wholeheartedly agree

I'm worried about your mother's condition. It's a broken bone, so please rest now and enjoy your time without overdoing it.
While worrying about everyday life, there are also probably inconveniences in moving. Healing may be due to the mother's physical strength or rehabilitation, but if it's support for personal affairs, housework, etc., I think you can take care of it. Washing and cleaning are also hard work. I think your mother will also be saved by what you do.

As for the repair costs, I'm thankful that my mother said she would do something about it. They will always be “parents.” I want to help children. A kindness that wants to help. They think of you. How about receiving love from your mother? For that reason, please express your gratitude and support your mother's personal surroundings.
Please take care of yourself.