About tomb obtainers
Recently, I've been hearing a lot of opinions about grave obstruction.
The opinion that smudging a grave is a punishment, the opinion that what is important is not the grave, but your heart, and that seeping the grave is not a bad thing.
My house is not my home, and my parents are the only ones in the grave. The bones of the Throat Buddha are stored at Shiunzan Nakayama-ji Temple.
My son doesn't seem to have any desire to get married so far, he is busy with work and hobbies, and I often go to graves alone.
I also passed the 60th birthday, and I began to think a lot about when I passed away. If it's going to be a burden for my son, I'd like to go to the grave while he's well, but is that a punishment?
Incidentally, in a few years it will be 7 years since my father died 50 times and my mother passed away.
