How to erase haya haze

I don't think there's any reason for juniors to hold back from someone you unilaterally like.
Just because you like someone doesn't mean that ownership is accruing to you.
If you and he are already dating, it would be bad if they tried their hand at it while knowing it.
As for this time, the juniors aren't bad.
Your anger is unreasonable.
In this way, if you have a personality that makes you angry even when you don't get angry, you are bothered by others, and you are more likely to be disliked.
Being with someone who is angry can make you uncomfortable.
At the very least, you must be making juniors uncomfortable.
Why did you go out of your way to say that to your juniors?
So, if you want to be popular, reduce anger and hatred, be aware of compassion, be kind to others, say “there are cute places,” and be conscious of rejoicing in others' happiness.
For example, why don't you search for a meditation called “mercy meditation” and try it out?
Also, in Buddhism, I believe that a sense of ownership causes trouble and suffering.
There is a possibility that having the illusion (sense of ownership) of something that is “mine” just because you like it unilaterally and that is not yours yet has led to anger against your juniors.
That doesn't make anyone happy.
At least you and your juniors are now uncomfortable.
You interfered with the happiness of your juniors.
If you change a behavior pattern that spreads discomfort like that, others will want to be with you, so your luck in love may also increase.
So, I think being aware of mercy, cooling down anger in a short time, and letting go of an excessive sense of ownership will lead to a carefree and paradise life.
If you become someone who is in such a good mood, it will be easier for others to like you.

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This is Beanshi Deluxe for love counseling.
None of those guys are maximum self-preservation.
Junior women are also good at it just because they don't want to get hurt.
Does that mean the man kept in a relationship with that woman while feeling good with you 💗 on the back side? If that's the case, even if that kid gets together with him, it's certain that he will become unstable with another woman in the future... wasn't that good? Apart from that, none of them originally belonged to anyone. So just think that you didn't follow your own story, My World. It's important to cherish that point of view. Then you have nothing to lose. The only thing I feel lost is my rules, the expectations and desires of My World, and Moso. 🐄
If you don't notice that gap early on, your brain will misunderstand it and you'll think “my boyfriend... 🔥”, so be careful! ('👄 `)
If you don't want to get hurt or feel lost, this is it.
First, make a clean switch. It's not mine or anything from the beginning, so please be completely official and tell them the truth.
“I'm envious of going out with him. (^-^) Hero 🐸 (Honestly... honest people don't lie about their own psychology, so the future will be easier)
It's fine. I'm not going to chase them anymore.
I'll say that for now.
Otherwise, I won't feel refreshed.
He had a good relationship with you, right?
Even when the two of us met, they had a really good mood, and they had a really surprising attitude. Do you know what I'm saying? I gave up completely because of that. I'm sorry. Because if I don't say it, I won't feel refreshed either. because isn't it? A man who meets only two women other than himself, flirts with them, and makes false gestures. I just want you to be happy. I'm no good when I only meet two other women other than you. What's more, a man with a nice face, I really can't do it. So just be careful about that. sorry~. ✋👹

In other words, I didn't have to be caught by a man who was beautiful in every way and made everyone think he was beautiful, and that kid took me in. you didn't get dumped. If you're a man, you can pretty much understand about a man who does that kind of thing in the future. I'm glad you didn't end up with that man in Zettai.
Getting married betrays both men and women like that. like each other. Right now, I can only show you good places. I'll reveal my true identity someday. So I'm glad you didn't take the risk. 👼

My painful feelings have been conveyed very well. I understand that you are deeply troubled by the junior you believed in, the feeling that you were betrayed by him, and your own anxiety about the future.

It might be a little tough, but I'll be honest. I think the root cause of today's “fuzzy mess” is a comparison with others who say “he and his juniors are happy, but I can't be happy.”

In Buddhism, “not going the way you want” is regarded as the root of “suffering.” The fact that your junior was approached by him while knowing how you felt is actually not a problem. This is because there is someone you like, but there is no need to hold back others. The reason I wasn't able to say it directly to you was probably because it was hard to say and there was some kind of consideration. Also, the fact that he has a “good vibe” with you can often happen in relationships between men and women.

I also understand the feeling of frustration, “Why do people who prioritize their own desires become happy.” Desiring marriage or a family is a natural desire, but in Buddhism, this is called “thirst (marriage),” and if the obsession is too strong, we suffer ourselves. Comparisons with them have been added to that, spurring suffering.

Love is a “relationship.” If you compare yourself to others who are doing well now and decide that you are “unhappy,” the pain will only increase. To get rid of the mess, first of all, don't stick to the “him and his juniors.” Look away and say, “I just didn't have a relationship with him; I have another good relationship.”

There's absolutely no need to blame yourself for being flawed. By letting go of your obsession with others and living vividly now and in the future, your inner and outer appearance will naturally increase your brilliance. That healthy brilliance will surely eventually lead to a “good relationship” suitable for you.

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I don't think anyone is bad when it comes to love. Even though the two of you know your love for him, it's probably quite difficult to say “I was the person he liked.” Also, I was told a confession, and since there is no obligation to report it to you when you are in a relationship, even if you know your feelings and keep silent, it's up to 2 people.

However, when I think about your feelings, it makes me feel frustrated that they were being disrespected.

However, since it is a workplace relationship, if you are at a stage where you feel a favor or have not been confessed, you may not be able to clearly refuse, and you may act like getting involved in a good atmosphere. I think he was also at a loss. But if he had an unexpected attitude, then that's disrespectful to you, isn't it? The fact that my junior girlfriend also cheated on me with lies is probably “not being able to say to her seniors.” Still, I wanted you to confide in it. If you think about what you'll be told later, it's never this miserable. A love triangle in a workplace romance is difficult, isn't it?

Marriage hunting and relationships don't work well if you think that people won't choose you, even if you have a chance.

Why don't you find a way to live that you can cherish yourself? I have something to work hard on. A way to spend your time as you like. That way of life is fascinating. When it comes to love and marriage, it's easy to envy those around you as you get impatient, but it's not like you're being replaced by someone else, so let's incorporate pride and small changes into your way of life and become an attractive person.

Kaka-san, please contact us.

The other day, I think we talked about how it would be easier for the two of you to flush things down and spend time with enough time to say congratulations.

We also talked about how the scenery will change as we spend time finding something we can focus on.

You said you can't afford that kind of leeway. I feel like I still can't afford it.

It's painful, isn't it? It also makes me feel betrayed by a colleague I was on good terms with.

Then why did you say such a thing about a man who has a slightly friendly conversation? It's going to be

Love really is full of contradictions.
There are various ways to establish it, and this doesn't mean Kaka-san is bad.

But if you're obsessed with this incident, Kaka-san won't be able to move on.

Please forget about this one, think only about yourself, and improve your femininity.

Marriage hunting is really difficult, isn't it?

Most women in their 20s to 30s are love counseling and marriage hunting counseling.

Everyone is fighting so hard.
Kaka-san isn't the only one.

Everyone is crying, but while overcoming it, they are doing their best next and next.

There may be times when your heart is tingling, but if you do your best, there will always be a man who sees Kaka-san doing such a hard work and thinks it's wonderful.

If you're impatient, what works well won't work either. Hold on tight, pretend that you can afford it, and spend your time smiling, even if you can't afford it.

Anyway, let's spend every day in a good mood.

My luck changed from there.

Please do your best!