On living as a male homosexual

Buddha said, “Everyone loves themselves the most. That's why you shouldn't hurt others.” I was told.
So, in addition to protecting yourself, it's probably better not to hurt your romantic partner or those involved.
Also, it's important not to have an affair.
In the case of a matching app, there is also a risk that the partner is actually a married person, so it would be better to make a careful assessment.
After that, let's understand that emotions such as greed (pleasure) and anger will always pass away.
When the momentum of greed or anger is strong, I don't care about the details, but there are times when I regret or worry when my emotions have passed away.
So, although it is very difficult, it is desirable to be careful about life in general so that you don't regret it even after your emotions have passed.
Whether driving a car or driving with body, language, or consciousness, there are situations where “stopping temporarily” or “driving slowly” is necessary for safe driving.
I pray that you will have a wonderful relationship.

I read it.
I read that you are wondering what to do about sex in the future. I don't know the details about you, but I can tell you what you're worried about. I understand your feelings from the bottom of my heart.
You may be a college student living a very free way of life, but you are living as an individual as another independent adult.
Naturally, if you have sex comfortably with many people, there is a risk of getting a venereal disease, and if you get infected, the possibility that you will pass it on to other people also increases. It's about yourself, and it also has an impact on the people around you.
That's because it's true for people of the same sex and the opposite sex. You probably already have such an awareness, so I think it is desirable to live a responsible way of life with sincerity in order to cherish yourself and the people around you.
Please be careful not to be easily swept away by the atmosphere of the place, and also be careful about how you feel when alcohol is in it.
I sincerely pray that you will cherish your relationships with the people around you and that you will sincerely respect each other and live a fun and rich life with all of you. We wholeheartedly agree

Is sexual intercourse possible in the gay world? I wonder if that is it.
In any relationship, there will be skinship, and sexual intercourse will also be included in the form of loving each other. If that happens, what I'm worried about is venereal diseases related to infectious diseases.

Building a relationship with proper knowledge and compassion for the other person is probably the most important thing.

reliable contraception and safe sexual practices. And the consent of both parties and how to proceed with the act. It's the same no matter what kind of sexuality a person is. I don't think only gay people are different.

I think it's just that the people you met or knew didn't match the values you were looking for. Some of my friends are gay, and their views on romance are close to mine, and there is a sense of security even when talking, and I'm still in a relationship with my friends.

Even so, if it is famous that there are many cases of venereal diseases among male homosexuals, the sense of crisis about sexual activity may be slightly weak. Your concerns are also conveyed very well.

Including such things, it would be necessary to share values while discussing with important people and loved ones. If it's someone you have feelings for, you may be able to have a relationship without worry or difficulty, even when it comes to sexual activity.

Hikaru, please contact us.

They wake up to saying they are gay, search for a partner, are asked for a physical relationship, and worries increase by testing, and they are unable to concentrate on the results.

It's very painful, isn't it?
At last, I was able to secure my freedom.
The road ahead is very difficult, isn't it?

I also have a few gay acquaintances, but when I find someone of my type, they suddenly become animalistic, and their eyes and gestures change.

I'm really impressed that he's gay from the ground up. I'm half envious.

Of course, even among gay people, there are probably many people who have built relationships based on respect,
It probably depends on where you meet and how you meet them.

I think it's the same for men and women.

If you're a hidden gay person that you haven't told others about, you feel even more that your mind is freed.
But it looks like a lot of fun.

I feel like it's also my ultimate selfishness and self-expression.

If you were to say love, the form of being close to someone's heart like that might be love,

As long as I can't have children (apart from foster children), I want them to only look at themselves,

I wonder if this desire is deeper than that of men and women.

Because I'm going to put my life on it

If you don't have a vessel you love, it might be crushed.

The fact that they are being consulted here means they are wondering or thinking about something, so

You can seal it while you can get it back,
There is also an option called bye

I'm married, but my hobby is masculine. (Wife approved)
There are people like that too.

There are so many different people right now,
Don't worry too much, relax,

Please protect your own body, live your own way, and love yourself.

I think the gay world is the world of love.

Please enjoy creating a world of your own color.