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Maybe I hit and run

About 5 years ago, I was working as a delivery person, and one day, I felt like I heard a trick sound when parking in the back in the parking lot of the apartment, and when I looked at the side mirror, there was a slight scratch on the side mirror, but I may have hit it at that time, but I thought it might be different, so I didn't report it to the company or its owner.
Now that I remember, what did I do to the car from that time? It makes me think about it all the time with so much remorse and anxiety.
I myself have obsessive thoughts, and I went to the hospital and recently I've been doing much better, but I'm suddenly uneasy.
I wish I had reported it properly when I thought it might be that time, so now, while I can't even remember what color that car is, I feel like I want to say it to the apartment and apologize. The hospital teacher is changing now, and even if I apologize, my worries have just increased excessively and it's not good, so shouldn't I be careful from now on? It is said

4 Zen Responses

It's fine! It's fine!

I read your question.

Now I suddenly remember what was 5 years ago,

“I think I was really hitting it at that time”
“Shouldn't I have reported it properly?”

The anxiety is getting bigger, isn't it?

However, even back then, “I may have hit it. But it might be different,” and now I can't even remember the color of the car.

If you go to the site in that state, search for a partner, and try to apologize, there is a possibility that your anxiety will become even stronger.

Most side mirrors are made of resin, aren't they?
If it's rubbed off, don't worry.

As the attending physician said,

I'm not going to check it out now, I'll be careful from now on.

Wouldn't that be fine?

What is obsessive anxiety

“Is it really okay?”
“Wouldn't it be better to check again?”

It makes me want to check it over and over again.

However, the more I check, the next anxiety may come up.

There are times when I think too much about this and that later.

The same thing often happens.

So I understand how you feel.
You don't get over it, do you?

In such a case, I tell myself.

It's fine.
I won't think about it any further.

Once the anxiety passes, it's “fine” again.

If it bothers you even a little bit, “it's fine.”

Rather than digging back into the past over and over

From now on, I will drive carefully and safely.

That's enough.

Right now, in accordance with the attending physician's policy
Please take care not to lose your calm state.

“Worry” can also be changed to “preparation” with advice. Let's think about it together

Well, as the doctor said, maybe it's over now, but after being reminded, I'm worried and feel guilty.

When I think back to it, “Maybe it was... There are probably many ways to say “it might have been this”. I think that's an awareness, and it also means that I've become a person I can reflect on. It was unthinkable back then, wasn't it?

However, why don't you get caught up in something you can't prove, and not only do you have regrets and repentance, but also take a positive view to properly learn what you've noticed in this way?

And if you have concerns, why don't you just hold them alone and share them like this? If you do that, you can turn “worry” into “preparation” with everyone's advice. Please rely on Hasunoha to turn your worries into peace of mind. If you're worried, you can think about it together.

Please sincerely repent

I read it.
You're very worried because you remember that you might have hit and run before. I don't know the details about you or the circumstances at that time, but I really understand that you are very uneasy.

If you are worried that this is the case, please honestly confess it to the Buddha, God, or your ancestors from the bottom of your heart, then sincerely reflect on what you have done, repent to the Buddha God, your ancestors, and sincerely apologize to your ancestors, and those you have caused damage from the bottom of your heart. Also, please swear to your ancestors, the Buddha God, that you will never commit the same mistake again.
Your thoughts, remorse, repentance, apology, and vows are all kindly received by Buddha, God, and your ancestors. He accepts you and forgives you.
I sincerely pray to the ancestors of God Buddha so that you will not do anything bad for yourself in your future life and that you can live a healthy life every day by doing good deeds every day.
And I will support you from the bottom of my heart. We wholeheartedly agree

The weak eat the strong

I dare to pass on this dishonest way of thinking.
In this world, the weak eat the strong.
Carnivores win if they eat, and herbivores win if they escape.
Of course, laws and morals are important to humans, but on the other hand, we can also think that if we run away, we can win.
Even if you drive 70 kilometers on a road with a speed limit of 60 kilometers, you usually won't get caught. Strictly speaking, it is illegal, but if it ends without getting caught, the statute of limitations will eventually be established.
So, let's think that the victim who couldn't catch you was a stupid carnivore, and you were a herbivore that escaped and won.
Occasionally, there is news that politicians run away and win without being prosecuted in the gray zone of lawlessness.
That too is the diet of the weak and the strong.