How can I be seen as having a bright personality

Nice to meet you, my name is Hasegawa Tetsuma.

You might not be able to say that it's an answer like the monk says,
I think the quickest way is to change the look.

In order to draw people into the sermon, the Buddha first makes his face shine and shows a wonderful appearance. The teachings are internal, so outsiders can't understand them. So first, let's talk about it with an external face that people can understand.

If you look brighter, your mind will also be brighter.

I think it's painful and unbearable for people around the age of 20 to have an unintended impression on people around them. So I feel depressed for a moment, but by reopening with “well, okay,” the pain will ease, and you may have a brighter expression. A smile that raises the corner of your mouth is something you can't easily do unknowingly. Why don't you be a little aware? Because a smile is a welcome treat.

However, having a bright face all the time is quite tiring. There are times when people get angry about why they have to hide their true self and smile for others.
(I think there is a widespread trend in the world where we have to be bright. (Even when I look at job advertisements, they only say “cheerful and energetic person,” which makes me feel rather depressed.)

Therefore, there is no need to force Aimin to change her personality or preferences.
However, think that fashion is compassion, and a smile is hospitality, and please behave stylishly and with a smile according to the TPO. Even if you get too excited and go around idle, you can just open up and say “well, okay.”

I don't think I meant to make it dark, but I think it's making my thoughts and making people aware of others that makes my expression darker (^<^)?
① If you think about something fun or bright, your mind and expression will be turned to it and brighten up.
② Touch something fun or bright, and if we don't resist it, it will illuminate and brighten up.
③ My thoughts are completely off, and when I'm completely in my own world, my mind searches for fun things and my expression is naturally bright and soft.
In any case, the best thing is that there are no “worries” or “teasing” on this side, and that you can enjoy everything.
Right now, you may be worried about people's eyes. It may have been an opportunity for you to dress up and act pretending, and it may have damaged your original brilliance.
It's something I don't really care about people's eyes or evaluations.
If they laugh all the time, on the contrary, they are strange people, and conversely, people like that are forced to behave cheerfully.
If you were to be called a menhera girl, you'd have a bright reaction even there.
A couple who aren't on good terms watch TV separately and it's frustrating when they laugh at the same place as their husband, so it's funny that they don't laugh even if they want to. There are times when you can't enjoy fun things, and even when you laugh, you can't laugh.
Speaking of what makes you do that, it's your attitude, your creations, your guises, your hidden things, and unnecessary things.
If you don't have that, wouldn't you be able to dodge them brightly even if they were called menhera?
I recommend working to get rid of it.
※That... is funny, something that is making me lose ❝ by itself ❞.
❝ Maybe it's because you notice it ❞.

Aimin-sama

This is Kawaguchi Hidetoshi. This is my humble answer to the question.

Being called a “menhera” is troubling... it is truly a problem for my heartless friends around me.

If they are simply being criticized, I wonder if there is room for improvement by strongly denying it or clearly conveying what they dislike. Even so, if you still don't seem to quit, I think one way is that you can change the way you socialize if you're not a real friend rather than someone who can think about the other person.

That said, while relationships have already been established to a certain extent in the small, narrow world of campus life, I think there is some resistance to quitting friends or quitting relationships now.

So, to be honest, changing your personality may be difficult, but as I mentioned in my humble answers to the questions and answers below, I know that it is possible to change your personality for the better by changing the factors that are the causes and conditions of your current personality for the better.

For example, as Mr. Hasegawa has already mentioned, I think one way is to brighten it up from the outside. There are also many women's fashion magazines aimed at young people. So I think it's okay to do a little research on hairstyles, makeup, clothes, etc., and try it out.

It doesn't matter if you've already finished, but if you're going to be job hunting, I think it will also be useful for how to make a good impression in an interview.

Question “Can I change my personality?”
http://blog.livedoor.jp/hasunoha_kawaguchi/archives/1004829168.html

“... Of course, personality also has become your current personality due to various causes and conditions, but by thoroughly investigating and understanding the causes and conditions that are your current personality, you should naturally be able to change your personality for the better by changing those causes and conditions for the better. ・・”

I pray for good deeds.

Kawaguchi Hidetoshi Gassho