I don't understand people's feelings

Zerao-san

I don't think it's easy to really understand the feelings of others.
On the contrary, I think we actually don't know and control everything, even our own feelings.

Also, it is natural for others to think and feel differently, and this is called “one's own yardstick.” It's a word that isn't used very well, but since we only have “our own yardstick,” we have no choice but to use it.

However, I think there is a difference between whether you think that “yardstick” is absolutely correct and hold it up, or whether you use it because you think there is a mistake.
When you feel or think about something, why don't you stop and take a breath without immediately responding.

Zerao is worried that she doesn't understand or notice people's feelings. But aren't you already aware of who you are? I think it's important to be aware of that.
Also, the words “I'm sorry for being one-sided” are also written to be close to the other party.

It may be difficult to be close to people's feelings overnight, but it seems like that effort is being made. Please keep going.

Once again, I wanted to become a monk who is close to people's feelings.
Thank you very much.

It's very difficult.

However, things I don't like being done to myself or things I don't want to be done
Now that you can decide whether or not you are doing it against your opponent,
How about using that as a guideline for this?

To Zera-sama

Thank you for your hard work.

This is the first time I've noticed it.
That can't be helped.
First, let's thank ourselves for being able to notice that, and others who gave us that awareness.
What you do from here on out is very important.
How to make use of this experience next
Depending on that, people will naturally drop by after that, or whether they will end up alone
It's all up to you.
Have a firm image of what you want to be in the future
Do I need anything for that image
Please work on what to do one by one.

Gassho

I don't know anything specialized, but maybe that's why I can't control myself.
It's painful not to know why, but if so, it doesn't mean there's no way to deal with it.

Nice to meet you, Zerao-san.
People's feelings... as Mr. Urakami also said, are really “something I don't understand.”
Then, they have gathered their courage here and exposed themselves.
Moreover, they have repented and are being asked for advice.
I don't think Zerao-san can't be close to people's feelings.

By all means, take a breath before doing anything
If someone else did that to you, how would it feel?
Please think about it.

Also, your experiences up until now might make people feel even a little bad? If you think so,
Conceal your shame and say, “I want to do this with this kind of feeling, is that OK?” with
It might be a good idea to ask people around you.
As well as being able to receive appropriate advice, I think the way people around you look at you will also change.

Also, I think we will gradually be able to think from a human point of view.