Zen Dialogues

Reflections from Japan's Buddhist Traditions

How should I deal with anxiety

Hello. Nice to meet you. After I graduated from a certain regional national and public university, I left a graduate school at a certain former imperial university and now work for a major company. I'm currently working in an IT department, and it's a system that makes many people happy while...

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Please tell me the sutras and favorite words in Buddhism.

It makes me feel that the sutras and sounds are so beautiful. I feel the names of flowers related to Buddhism and the richness of various types of nature. Please tell me your favorite words, flowers, and other things.

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Does anyone know anyone who attained the attainment of Buddhism?

Thank you all as always. I've had a lot of experiences in my life, Thanks to you, on 2017/2/20, I suddenly had a bright, blissful, and peaceful space in the color of a lotus flower (pure land?) I was invited to make ordinary people attain Buddhism. I've been forgiven everything about...

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About having an affair with a married man

Hello. I'm currently in an adulterous relationship with a man who is about 20 years old apart. His marital relationship has broken down, and he is separated from his wife. However, it seems like they haven't been able to get divorced because their kids are cute. I really loved him. If I...

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I want to be able to believe

Nice to meet you. Thank you for your support. Until now, I have been working while having an illness. I would like to be able to talk not only about Buddhism, but also about the meaning of living with someone. Aren't such meetings held at temples, etc.? Then, what is the point of giving...

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I can't hope for Ninomiya Kazunari's happiness

I am now 20 years old and have dedicated everything to Kazunari Ninomiya ever since I was in elementary 2. One day, Ninomiya Kazunari got married. Normally, I'm happy, but since my partner has a lot of blogs, it was someone (Ito Ayako) who made me smell it, so it's unbelievably painful for me to...

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I'm afraid of being complained about.

At work, I'm always excited that the person I'm dealing with will make a complaint. It hasn't been said about this time yet, but it was strongly said about 2 times before, and I'm traumatized since then. My relationship with this person will continue. Basically, they are selfish people and don't...

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There is nothing but distrust of the monk who comes to my house

My grandmother is a member of the Jodo Shinshu sect. “huh?” from before There was something I thought about, and my grandmother passed away the other day, and we had a lot of discussions. First, I brought my own boombox during the memorial service a few years ago. Originally, they spoke in a...

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About my high school son's love affair

Nice to meet you. I have a question about my son who is in his second year of high school. I recently learned that the woman my son has been in a relationship with for a few months is a single mother who is 10 years older. I was so surprised that I harshly blamed my son. After that, my son...

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What about parishioners?

The other day, my father's funeral was held, and the monk at the temple, who has been indebted to me as a parishioner for generations, came to me, and all my relatives felt disgusted by the monk's attitude and behavior so bossy. First, when I called the temple to ask for sutras, the date and...

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My son who is a college student is about to drop out

Hello. Thank you for always being there. Let me talk to you about my son who is a college student. I'm currently in my third year at university, and I've decided to study for 1 year. I'm staying at a boarding house. My husband contacted me from the university because I hadn't registered for...

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The life of a criminal (about the death penalty)

People who commit serious crimes can get a death sentence, right? I've heard from people things like how to execute the death penalty... It makes me think that no matter what the heinous sinner is, humans should not touch humans. Killing doesn't mean that the wounds of the bereaved family...

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Please help..

They are disliked by everyone in their families, and they have been subjected to violence such as being told to disappear, die, etc., and being slapped in the face by their parents. I told my friend once. I'm always laughing, so seriously I said I'm going to die. Then, oh well, what if I...

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Being able to do it from people is natural

Apparently, I have a deep sense of mind that “it is natural for people to do something” stuck in the depths of my heart. It's natural to have them take care of you. It is natural for them to be consulted. It's natural to get help. etc etc However, according to visible consciousness, “it...

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I want to acknowledge that I'm not accepted by everyone. I want to be recognized.

The miserable feeling of “not being understood” gets stronger year by year. I do music, and I mainly play relatively minor instruments. The fact that I was laughed at as if I had been ridiculed before by a woman who plays gorgeous instruments and always stands out is still hurting and...

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I make mistakes every day at work, and my life is full of failures

I make mistakes every day at work. I almost never get scolded, Even if you're careful, you'll make similar mistakes over and over again, and make mistakes you haven't done until now. Outside of work, I get on the wrong train and make mistakes in the cooking process. There are many failures in...

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My future with my married boyfriend

I have a boyfriend who is more than one year older, and he is married and has two small children. The marital relationship has broken down, there is almost no business conversation, and it seems that they are being told to have a relationship outside. However, it seems that they won't get...

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Claims after the third anniversary

The memorial service for the 3rd anniversary was held at home, and an offering of 10,000 yen, a car fee of 5,000 yen, and a meal of 5,000 yen was given to the monk. On the night of that day, I was later billed that 20,000 yen was not enough for the donation. Is that normal? Originally, I...

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How to deal with resentment and hate that won't go away

I was in a relationship with someone from within the company at my previous job, but when I retired, my relationship with the company wasn't good, and we were forced to break up. In order to maintain secrecy, they are made to sign a pledge if they come into contact with them and take legal...

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It doesn't work well with people on social media

I'm sorry for the social media relationships, but please let me talk to you. I often feel bad about the internet. even though they want to make promises with just words and not attitudes I don't like every promise because of how many people break it. I've come to trust people who show and...

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