Zen Dialogues

Reflections from Japan's Buddhist Traditions

Common sutras

Hello. I read hasunoha all the time. I have a question. The other day I attended the funeral of a relative of an acquaintance so many times that I attended the wake, and I suddenly thought about it. Are there any unified sutras regardless of denomination? Originally, Buddha probably spread...

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Do good things

This is my first question. Thank you to the monks who read it. And thank you for your support. I want to be someone who helps people. If you're a human, it might be natural, but I think that's how I live my life. The above content alone seems like a good thing, but it inevitably bothers...

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Work worries

I work in the service industry. Recently, I've been particularly concerned about complaints from customers, and I haven't been able to work the way I want. Within myself, I always do my best for customers, but it may not be the best from the customer's point of view... Despite such...

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The chief priest of a mysterious temple

We have been in a relationship since last month, and we did an inheritance-related job. The content was to sort out the rights relationships because there are 4 rights holders each for land and buildings within the same plot, and the rights are complicated. There is land owned by a certain temple...

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How to become a monk who lives for others

Hello. My parents' house is a temple that has continued since the Edo period. I've been looking forward to taking over the house since I was little, and now I'm not hesitating about becoming a monk. I'm currently enjoying my college life, but I'm planning to take over the house after graduation....

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About the death of a parent

Please. My mom has been in the hospital since a week ago The state of unconsciousness continues. I'm an only child and I'm on good terms with my mother When I think about my mother if things happen to me My heart is about to burst. I can't sleep every day, and food doesn't go through my...

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I want to be comfortable

I'm tired of struggling with relationships. I don't want people to do things I don't like being done to me I don't intend to do it. But it hurts important people. Whether consciously or unconsciously. I was bullied the whole time in middle school and high school. I have close...

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The essence of Buddhism

What kind of teaching is the essence of Buddhism? Thank you ❗

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You can't get away with it.

I'm indebted to you. I've heard a lot of things since I lost my daughter, and I thought about how I could live my life facing forward. → when I'm sad, my daughter is sad too → no matter how sad she is → let's face forward and live for my daughter and the family left behind now → let's overcome...

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I want you to understand that when you die yourself, you don't want to make others regret it

I will write the question for the second time. I helped him at his parents' house during the Obon festival, and there were days 47 for him. In his greetings to the parishioners, he talked again about his relationship with me. That was the case at funerals, but they are already famous. It exists...

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Why do people become anxious

People get anxious, probably because they can't see the future. Even if you calm your mind by copying sutras, or even if you visit temples and shrines and ask God or the principal image for your will to fulfill, your anxiety won't go away. The time is right now. What should I do about this...

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I don't understand the meaning of living

Recently, I don't understand why I have to live this far. They were treated as less than livestock by their classmates due to bullying, and their existence was denied, and even when they became ill, they couldn't easily gain understanding from those around them, and they lived despite...

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I want to disappear

Nice to meet you. Excuse me for the question. It's been a long time, but please stay with me. please. When I was young, my parents divorced and I was taken in by my mother. My parents quarreled every day until they got divorced. I myself have also been beaten by my father. I couldn't...

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What is religion

What is religion? What does religion aim for? I don't really understand the purpose of religion. I have had the opportunity to come into contact with religious events at my grandparents' memorial services, etc., but I don't know what this means in my life. What is the purpose of...

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Isn't fishing good?

My hobby is fishing, and I go with my friends and family, but is this a bad act? I take what I catch and eat it as much as possible, but there are times when unedible fish can be caught inside, and even if I let it go, it just dies. It's also true that fishing brings joy to life. And I'm...

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What's the difference between enlightenment and giving up?

　Enlightenment is about giving up after all, isn't it? Due to the recent enlightenment boom, it is often said in various books that tolerating “here and now” and “who you are” is enlightenment, and Buddha also said, “Don't devour, know what is enough.” But isn't this a matter of giving up...

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The meaning of life

Please tell me. I've been suffering from anxiety for about 2 years now. I've tried something, but it hasn't gotten any better. And I think about a lot of things. Does life have meaning? Even if anxiety disorder gets better, they will suffer and die due to other illnesses, accidents,...

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Why can't children and parents choose each other?

What is in this world ① People who want children but just can't have them. ② People who give birth to many children even though they don't want children, and finally give up childcare. ③ A person who wants a child, is born, and can properly raise that child even if that child is a disabled...

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The ups and downs of feelings are intense, and there are times when you have deep self-loathing

Good evening. I'm a high school girl. Feelings change drastically, and you can clearly notice the days when you are completely depressed, angry, and in a good mood. Even throughout the day, I can't stop crying, feeling melancholy, and a quick burst of anger at the slightest word. Pride is...

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Can you be happy even if you live without acting?

I am currently living with my husband and 3 son (3 months). It's my first time raising a child, and I'm struggling every day with all the things I don't understand. My childhood memories at home were all painful. My father didn't have a regular job, drank alcohol at home, and he assaulted me...

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