Zen Dialogues

Reflections from Japan's Buddhist Traditions

What is the meaning of memorial services for ancestors?

When researching Buddhism, it is strange that funerals and subsequent memorial services are treated as the most important topics. Are memorial services for parents and ancestors that important? I wonder if blood relationships are that important? I wonder if memorial services for ancestors...

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To be loved by your ancestors and Buddhas...

This is my first time asking a question. I often say “Please ask my ancestors” and “Please ask the Buddha” in ancestral memorial services and prayers, etc., but my ancestors received my memorial service I wonder if the Buddha really listened to my request... That's because I wasn't on very...

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Response to the coronavirus

The novel coronavirus is spreading, and I feel outraged by the Japanese government's response. Prime Minister Abe has said that he will thoroughly implement border measures, but I think it's too late and it's just a matter of shape. Chinese people were also entering and leaving Taiwanese...

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I was told by people of emerging religions that they have deep karma

Good morning. I've heard the phrase “deep karma” for a long time, but there was a woman who insistently solicited me to an emerging religion before marriage. I was born with a chronic illness, but I was able to control it by taking medicine and living a normal life. One day, I suddenly met a...

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When children cry, they panic.

I can't get rid of the feeling of “I'm sorry I'm a mom.” I'm raising two boys, 2 years old and 4 months old. My husband is a doctor, and he is on assignment alone. When I gave birth for the second time, I had severe postpartum depression in addition to my chronic illness, and I often hit...

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Memorial service for Mizuko who had a miscarriage 6 years ago

6 years ago, I had an abortion during a reprimand. There was Mizuko Jizo at the temple where my grandparents' graves are located, so my husband and wife went to pray when they were feeling well. I didn't have a monk perform a memorial service. I went to pick up something I lost in the sky, so...

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I want to know recommended books for learning Buddhism

Thank you very much for your kind responses to my numerous inquiries so far. Recently, I'm interested in “accepting who I am now and living the way I am.” I think Buddhism also has teachings that are in line with it, and I would be happy if there were any books where I could learn such ways...

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I don't hate you and I appreciate you

In a book published by a monk belonging to a certain Buddhist sect in Japan For people who are unwell due to hatred, first imagine yourself prostrate in front of someone you don't like, “I don't hate you. I'm grateful to you.” It was written that if you chant the meaning three times or more...

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Criteria for receiving responses

Good morning Are you aware of the other monks' answers? Also, do you find it difficult to answer questions that have already been thanked? As for the second question, there used to be a monk who was concerned about being thankful, so I asked it Thank you for your support

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Do you think aliens believe in Buddhism?

I personally think there is no other religion as diverse and bright in the universe as Buddhism. So, it shouldn't be strange for aliens to believe in Buddhism. I want to hear the monk's free and interesting opinions.

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What are the “goals” of working adults

I am an office worker in my 5th year working in Tokyo. I'm also a member of society, and I'm so embarrassed to ask this kind of question, but how did you “think” and “decide” “what you want to do.” This is because as I live my daily life as a member of society, I have come to strongly think...

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I want my parents to understand that I'm leaving college.

I had skipped college without telling my parents, but I was finally able to tell my parents that I wanted to quit. But of course it seems like my parents don't want me to quit “If you can't do it, can you quit?” “You can graduate in a little while, so do your best” I'm not sure about...

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About my future life

Two years ago, on my way home from work, I suddenly lost consciousness on the train, collapsed, and was taken to the hospital by ambulance, and when I noticed it, I was receiving an infusion in the hospital. (My job was working in a freezer that handled food, and I only had 12 to 13 hours of...

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It makes me feel like money doesn't have a heart

I'm the farmer's wife. I like homemade things, and sometimes I make bread jam, pickled plums, tsukudani, etc., and give them to my friends. It's the feeling of “sharing.” There are things we can't eat at home, and there are times when handmade is rare in this day and age, so there are times...

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This is my first question. Thank you for your support.

It's vague, but since I was in my 20s, I wanted to someday become a believer in some religion, and live my life using that as an example for myself. And last year, I learned about zazen meditation and learned about the Soto sect through that trend. Even though I learned about zazen meditation,...

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What Buddha wanted to say the most

I'm very sorry for the question as a general person with no knowledge... The time when Buddha existed was before Mahayana Buddhism and sects were formed, but how do you think the thing (message) that Buddha wanted to say and convey the most lives in Mahayana Buddhism (which part of the various...

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What does it mean to love yourself

Please let me know. Recently, I was having a hard time being betrayed by others. There are many things, from reading self-enlightenment books and falling in love with it to not being convinced. In one book, it was written that all of the reality that is happening now is something I was drawn...

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I want to study with full makeup. is this weird?

I like studying after applying makeup. Arrange your hair properly, and change your clothes into stylish clothes before the test. However, if you do it every day, it's bad for your skin, so I only use it on weekends. However, my family told me the other day, “That's weird, so stop it,”...

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About the future role of temples

There are currently 80,000 temples which are said to have been 130,000 in the Edo period, but it is said that it will further decrease to 50,000. Also, due to the development of the funeral industry, so-called funeral Buddhism is also disappearing. Mental issues have become the role of...

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I'm wondering if it was suicide or disappearance

I haven't been to work for a week. I told my workplace that I have a cold. But the whole time, I just think about suicide. I think disappearing is also an option. While I understand that both cause trouble and suffering to families, I really want to give up. I feel that my family is slightly...

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