Zen Dialogues

Reflections from Japan's Buddhist Traditions

I can't communicate with my husband

I'm worried about my marriage. We've been in a relationship for 3 years, and we've been married for 4 and a half years. At first, everyone said they were on good terms and were always together That was the relationship. We talked a lot, and the two of us went out on our days off. Recently,...

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The love story was so sudden...

I have a wife, and in a few months we will have a child. And yet, I fell in love with another woman. Commonly speaking, they are ambivalent feelings. I understand in my head that I shouldn't do it, but I just can't go against my feelings. What should I do??? Of course, I love my wife,...

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Life Counseling

Nice to meet you. I'm 23 years old and live in Kanagawa Prefecture. I joined 2 months ago and am currently 7 months pregnant. I lived with my mom until I got married. I don't know much about my father. Probably because of that, I wanted to reassure my mother by having a family from early...

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What do you do if you make a mistake in the sutras in the middle

Can even monks make mistakes in sutras? I think there are times when even professional singers make mistakes in lyrics, but have you ever made a mistake or chewed on a sutra and got lost in a strange way? In such a case, how do you fix it?

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I'm a student, but I don't understand why I live.

I'm a college student who will become a member of society starting next year. Thankfully, I got a job offer, but the company I plan to join is a so-called “black company.” They are made to work from 8 o'clock in the morning until the last train, and it seems that there is no end to the number...

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Japanese songs that make you feel Buddhism

Are there any Japanese songs (jPop, nursery rhymes, or enka) that make you feel the teachings of the Buddha? If you tell me the title of the song, the name of the artist, and if possible, the French language that symbolizes that song, it will be helpful when listening.

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Please give me some advice on my grandmother's bones.

My grandmother passed away last year. The funeral was held in secret, and since they didn't go through the temple, they didn't bury their bones in the graves where my grandfather or great-grandparents are located. Since we are married and have left our parents' house, we have no plans to enter...

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What song (song) makes you feel like “It's Buddhist”?

Strange question (;° O°) Could the monk teach me the song “This is a Buddhist song”? I'd like to hear that. Personally, The Blue Hearts “Rose of Passion”... various acts impermanent “Linda Linda”... the preciousness of the lives of sentient beings “HANABI” in Mr. Children... An...

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What is Japanese Buddhism?

　This is my first time asking a question here. Thank you for your support. I'm currently majoring in sociology at graduate school, and at the same time I have a strong interest in Buddhism. I would like to focus my future life on Buddhism. As a result of my own research on the current...

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What does it mean to quiet Nanmu Amida Buddha

My family is a member of the Jodo sect. The Jodo sect (I think the Jodo Shinshu sect is the same) understands the idea that “if you just chant Namu Amida Buddha, when you die, Amida will appear and take you to the Pure Land, where you will gain enlightenment and be saved.” However, no matter...

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I will commit suicide in 7 days

I can't get married, and I don't have children. It was my destiny that the people I liked wouldn't fall in love with me. I was lied to death. I knew my existence wasn't worth it. I've heard that suffering continues even after death, but suffering continues even when alive, so I decided to...

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I don't want them to have a funeral

I would like to ask you about matters after death. I like the idea of religion, the practices based on it, and the events themselves, but I would like to avoid belonging to any religion myself. This is because, as far as I know, the way of thinking of each religion rarely matches my...

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Why is it precious to be alive

I watch and hear news about children being killed by parents after abuse. Along with feeling sad and sad, there are always things I think about. “I think this kid was happy, even though his life was lost when he was young.” I am a survivor of child abuse. I grew up being hurt in shreds by...

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It makes my parents feel irritated.

I failed the university entrance exam, so I decided to become a ronin in spring. My parents were uncooperative with the entrance exam because they didn't care about the volume on the TV even when I was studying, they wouldn't listen to me even if I said I had to turn the volume down, and they...

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How to get a monk to name a child

I hear that the number of children with names that cannot be read normally due to glittering names or fashion is increasing. Also, there is no origin of the name, and I hear that there is an increase in the number of parents who cannot think of their future or children when they give a name only...

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How to have feelings

Every day since I changed jobs, getting scolded seems to break my heart. I was told about work that would cause trouble to other departments and companies if I make a mistake, but at the same time there are many work procedures, a sense of speed is required, and I do it while looking at memos,...

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Please tell me about when to move a temple

My father suddenly passed away a year ago, and as recommended by the head family, I was taken care of at a temple (this is the Rinzai sect) where the head of the family and the chief priest have been friends since ancient times. Just the other day, I finished the first anniversary of my...

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Why do bad things happen to people later

Thank you for always being there. I have a question. There are a lot of people around me, but after spending a long time watching people, I noticed something like this. At work, for example. If you deliberately transfer someone you don't like to a remote location where it's hard to commute,...

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I hate myself for not being good at it.

It's painful to feel sad about not being able to behave well. Everyone in my family is kind and funny, and we are the best family. My siblings have a baby, and I go to other prefectures to see their faces, but since I work every day, I want to use it for myself on Saturdays and Sundays. I had...

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My future self

My workplace, which was my only oasis, has changed. Friends who have stood by and supported each other even in difficult situations. I thought I was watching behind the scenes so that I didn't care about everything because my position changed and it was difficult, but at last I reached my...

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