Zen Dialogues

Reflections from Japan's Buddhist Traditions

What is the sky in the Heart Sutra

What is the sky? There was also a book that said we don't exist. Certainly, I don't think there will be any changes yesterday today. If it's been 10 years, I can understand the changes, and maybe they aren't in this world. But it changes every day, as if it were called impermanent. They look...

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What should I do to accept my father's death?

I'm indebted to you. My father had an accident the other day and passed away. My mom and I can't have a conversation with my father, whom I love. My two older brothers are making arrangements and preparations for various things. My dad's brother and my uncle are helping me too. I was...

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I'm worried that I've lent money to my boyfriend

My boyfriend, who is 14 years older and divorced, confided that “my friend has 200,000 debts,” and even though I wasn't asked to, I lent him 200,000 yen. It was said that there were other debts, so I said, “Repayment to me is fine at the end, so end the other debts.” After that, he was...

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My self without a future

With my abilities, I don't seem to be able to live the way I want I wanted to be born someone other than myself. I just wanted to get results over others for the effort I made But I'm incompetent, so it's impossible even if I make an effort I want to die already

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Sumo industry scandals

Every time I read news about recent assault incidents in the sumo industry, I wonder what part of this is the Shinto ritual. I turned down female governors who tried to go up to the ring for awards in the past on the grounds that “women get dirty when they go up to the ring.” However, they have...

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Suicide Paradise

I feel it all the time. What is called distorted justice that people have. Why don't we relentlessly die from an unspecified number of people even now? or that guy because it's not a big deal. They say don't study even though it's stupid, it's useless even if you do it, and when you go out and...

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Will I go to hell after death?

In order to go to the Pure Land of Paradise I've heard that you have to keep the commandments. Now about the commandments and what I did Does not kill First of all, what kind of creature is this not supposed to be killed, right? It kills mosquitoes, cockroaches, etc. They also eat meat and...

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Anxiety about the civil service exam (job hunting)

I go to a vocational school where I want to become a police officer. Apart from what I've discussed about my studies before, there are times when I feel uneasy. It's about sex (LGBT). I think the physical gender and gender identity are probably women, but when I looked it up, I wonder if...

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Why is staying alive considered the correct answer

Why is “staying alive” the correct answer? I feel that the structure of society is also moving on the premise that “treatment is natural” when you become ill. I don't have any particular regrets in my life; rather, I challenge what I want to do precisely because I think “it doesn't matter...

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Questions to the monk

Not only will I be the caretaker of my husband's parents' house, but I've been thinking for a long time that I and my son don't like getting involved with that temple, and I've been discussing the problems associated with that here. Among them... ① I'm too strong because I only prioritize my...

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About the bad monk

Up until now, I've asked a lot of questions about monks. Thank you all for your kind responses 🙇🏻🙇🏻🙇🏻 I have another question, but recently there was a monk who was arrested for inciting driving. I thought monks were wonderful people who explained their teachings, but there are bad monks among...

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What is death

Please tell me in detail about whether humans become nothing when living things die I'm honestly afraid of dying

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I want to go after the guy who got widowed earlier

I know this is a question that is difficult to answer. However, I thought it would be best to ask this question. First, my boyfriend and I agreed with each other 2 months ago and then executed it. (As an agreement, we are writing suicide notes to each other. (As for the reason in mind,...

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What should people without greed do...

I'm a man in his 20s. I'm still young, but I don't have much greed. When I look around my generation, I want a girlfriend! I want a car! I want money! Everyone seems to be living with some kind of desire, and I'm really envious. So the question is, how do things called cravings spring up?...

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It makes me want to take them to the temple

This is my first time discussing something like this, so it's hard to know how to explain it. I'm in a temple now (maybe a shrine?) There's something I'd like to take you to. I go to the temple myself, but there are times when I feel that I want to take someone inside me to the temple. I think...

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It's painful enough to die

A few months ago, I eloped with my affair partner. I was single, and he had a wife and children. The other day, when the job was decided and food, food, and shelter had stabilized, it became known that he had been in touch with his former wife. The former wife seems to be saying that her...

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It's about reincarnation.

Sorry, this is my first time asking a question. I think reincarnation is very strange. What happens to the souls etc. of people who have been born again after being born again? Also, when life after being reborn comes to an end. What will happen to the soul? the soul of a person from a...

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What is Buddhism

Does Buddhism recommend stopping thinking?

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What should I do about my parents' graves?

This is a question about my parents' “going into the grave.” My parents are in their 70s and are alive and well My father got cancer last year I'm worried about my father's grave after his death. I'll tell you why. My father was adopted and my maternal grandfather and grandmother have...

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I can't quit

I am doing volunteer work. I told them that I wanted to quit when I became a student when I became a member of society, but they didn't let me quit. Actually, the reason for becoming a member of society is unfounded, and there were several hurtful remarks in the words of the person above the...

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