Zen Dialogues

Reflections from Japan's Buddhist Traditions

I cheated on my high school entrance exam.

I cheated on my high school entrance exam a year ago. I didn't do well on the test I had confidence in, and my head went blank and cheated on the test in a different subject. However, my memory of that time is vague, and even though I have a memory that I cheated, I don't know how many questions...

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I want to forget him

Nice to meet you, and I hope you can contact us if you don't mind. Thank you for your support. I had a boyfriend of 1 year, and we broke up the other day. The reason we broke up was that he had a debt of about 4 million, and he told me he was sorry for bothering me, and I was left with an...

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I don't know what to do anymore, it's all my fault

Hello. This is my first time posting. I'm having a big fight with my boyfriend. A week ago, my boyfriend told me something very terrible (even though I was worried and went to the line, he said “I'm busy, I'm bothered during work”), and I was really shocked at the same time. I ignored all...

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How to live after an abortion

I became pregnant with a child with him who had been going on for 6 years due only to physical relationships. I'm currently in week 7. I'm in my first year as a working person and he's a student. No matter how much I talk to him, my desire to give birth won't change. His final answer was ・I...

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It drags on events from years ago

Nice to meet you. The haze won't clear up, so I'd like to discuss it with you. I'm going to drag on past events forever. It also doesn't mean that my gaffe is dragging on for a few days; it feels like events from a few years ago have been dragging on for a long time. Because of my...

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Work worries

It's been over a month since I first worked at a supermarket. I will now be in charge of cash registers and food. I've gotten used to my work, and I enjoyed my work, but since two weeks ago, I ordered a van, and I can't sleep because of anxiety every day. My boss says so many things to me...

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Even if someone they like is made, they quickly become disillusioned

I'm a 30 year old female. Even if I have a man I like, I feel “this person is different (not the person I was destined to be)” after the date, I withdrew, and I'm still single. No matter which man you date, “Something's different. It makes me think, “There should be others who are more...

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I'm too scared to act

Thank you for watching. It's going to be long, so I'll explain briefly. Apparently, my failure has involved people around me, causing trouble even to people who aren't involved. To a friend the other day I don't want you to let the problem get involved. If you cause too much trouble to...

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About atonement and repentance for past crimes

I committed stealing when I was in middle school. Currently, there is a statute of limitations for detectives. (Details are written in the profile.) Recently, I remembered this, made a donation, etc., and tried to make amends and repent, but after all, when I think about my partner's time, I...

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Maybe it wasn't suitable for marriage

Half a year has passed since I got married and started living with my husband. I'm worried that maybe I shouldn't have gotten married. Originally, I had little desire for marriage, childbirth, and childcare, and when my husband proposed to me, I inwardly thought it was disrespectful. This is...

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I'm having trouble with relationships

I build barriers when dealing with others, and I can't go so far as to become close. That wasn't the case in the past, and I had friends, but I don't have anyone close enough to call me my friend at school now. I don't think I hate being alone, but I sometimes feel lonely when I happen to, and...

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I feel guilty about throwing it out in the middle

After the consecutive holidays, I started going to the nearest driving school to get a small motorcycle (scooter) license. However, due to my lack of skill, I wasn't able to handle it better than I expected, and after being unable to learn within the specified time, it became an extended...

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I left my matching partner naked

Thank you for always being there. I've been married for 16 years, and my husband has repeatedly cheated on me. Looks like they enjoyed matching this time. It was last week when my anger didn't subside for a month and peaked. I didn't want to dirty myself. Before I knew it, I was also...

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What is a lifestyle learned from Buddhism

　good evening. I came across this site and found out the true identity of my fuss, and my mind is also changing. Thanks to everyone who responded to the consultation. Thank you very much. I have lived my life keeping a diary, taking notes, and storing things. However, living with what is...

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About entrance celebrations

I was worried because I didn't know if it would be appropriate to consult here, but I will do my best to consult with you. It's probably a small thing. It doesn't matter. Maybe I'm just being stingy, but I'm confused. This April, my older child became a high school student, and my younger child...

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I want to ease my competitive spirit

This is my first time consulting with you. It's about work, but my I'm tired of feelings of competition, dislike of losing, jealousy, and impatience. I live a work-centered lifestyle. I can only find my value in how many jobs I do and how successful I am at work. Once evaluated, I feel...

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Ronin seems to have failed and I want to disappear now

I've been a ronin aiming for national medical school for 1 year. The second exam is 1 week from now. The results of the common test were so bad that I misrepresented my score to my parents. No matter what, I couldn't tell them the real score. While studying for the second exam with the aim of...

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Please tell me how to cut the edge. Continued

I've been having discussions for a long time where I'm worried about being ignored by my husband. I think there's also my personality problem. I also understood very well that the personality I was born with cannot be easily changed. If I had lived with my husband, the results might have been...

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I don't want to live because I'm afraid of the future

I don't want to live because I'm afraid of the future. Hello. I'm still worried about the future It's hard to live every day being bothered I'm in my 20s. I have a vision of the world in which I live as an adult I was plagued by anxiety about the future after it became larger My...

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About books

I have a question about the book. About 2 weeks ago, they said on FM radio that it would be great to read books other than magazines. The DJ said that when you hit a wall or get stuck in your life, you know how you can escape the darkness while devising your own ideas, even under all...

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